My ex-girlfriend died

Sorry to hear that, CurryWurst. I imagine guilt is a natural thing to feel at times like this but don't try to dwell on it as it will just eat you up from the inside.

(On another note, I'm staggered to see that members feel obliged to squabble over the most ridiculous, petty things in threads like this.)
 
Sorry to hear about your loss dude. I normally don't post much either but your post touched heart strings as its very similar to something that happened to me 10 years ago, the difference being I was still with my GF when she died.

The best two pieces of advice that I can give you: talk to people, both in the real and virtual worlds (no offence chaps!) about it to get it off your chest and try your hardest to not beat yourself up for something that was totally out of your control. It may not seem like you can do it but trust me you can! Hindsight is both a blessing and curse...

I wish I had been given those two pieces of advice 10 years ago cause then maybe I wouldn't have eaten myself alive and have to live with the consequences of that all these years later :(
 
When people die sometimes we look for reasons to feel guilty (if only...),
I can't say don't do this because you've already started to feel that way, just to recognise that these things happen and whatever you feel now may not be rational for a while.


Kamwah, still attention seeking? Not here eh.
 
Strange, I broke up with my ex of 8 and half years in May, we started meeting up again and going for meals and texting and I just started ignoring her even though she kept trying to make conversation with me and what not... After reading this thinking about her being gone never speaking to her again is heart breaking, which is strange as we don't talk as it is.

Hope you're ok dude.
 
Don't hold yourself accountable for it, it's not your fault and will only make it worse for yourself.

Sorry for your loss :(
 
Sorry to hear it OP. Don't over-think it, not being friends was most likely the right decision otherwise it would probably have been leading to her.

Originally Posted by Kamwah
Did you know? And is never the start of a sentence =/.
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Stop being a tool.

And, yes you can use 'and' at the beginning of sentences.
 
Woh, Thats really sad to hear. I dunno how I'd react to hearing about one of my ex's passing away. I'm still good friends with 1 of them, the other I dont talk to. But when you've spent a lot of time with someone, regardless of how you are now, it'll hit home.

FYI, a lot of dipstick posts in this thread o.O
 
Ridiculous and uneccesary, good to know that the mods are up to their usual ninja skills deleting ridiculous posts.

Sorry for the loss OP. Totally understandable that you are taking it hard, as at one time she would have been a very significant part of your life, and an event like this can bring back all the feelings you had when you first split and more I'm sure.

You can't feel guilty for not wanting to have contact with her. Much in the same way as it would have been when you split up, try to focus on the good times you had while you were together and honour her memory that way, and give yourself a break =]
 
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