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megzy

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Ok this is my issue:
I have.. well had the best boyfriend imaginable :(
I dumped him cause i thought it would us both happier, cause lately we haven't been getting on that well, and there was this stupid argument we had over going bowling. I thought it would be better if came over my house after school, my mum took us bowling then he could stay the night at my house. But then he asked his mum and he wasnt allowed or something, i dont really know. Then he said he would ride over to bowling on his moped at 8 at night, and i was only caring and thought it was dangerous ( sorry for rambling but this does help explain everything), but he said it would be alright. i wasnt very happy cause i though he might get hurt or something cause the orad is really dangerous.
Then later on msn i was a complete and utter bitch to him and accused him of coming in between my best friend and me, i then told him to **** off. then proceeded to dump him, i was alrite on the friday but yesterday and today i have spent crying on my room, looking at all the stuff hes given me, realising just how much i really love him and want him back.
I dont know what to do cause he seems to have gotten over me really quickly.
Im crying now as i write this, the reason i havent told u all this is because hes on this forum.
Also i apologise to OcUK for overreacting and being immature in the past.
Thanks for reading this, any advice on either how to say sorry to him or how to help me deal with the way im feeling would be much appreciated.
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He will be feeling just as bad.

Get on the phone / go round.

Say sorry now, make up.

And do it today, not tommorrow - then make it up to him.
 
I cant go round I live in the middle of nowhere. Im scared he will hang up on me. Im not trying to make excuses but Im too wimpish to do any of that, and i dont want to feel more pain than i am now.
 
Clerkin said:
I suggest you grow up and stop acting so childish. Its all your own doing. apologise to him and see what happens.

im just suprised he didnt dump you first.
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Dont push it. If his opinion is insulting to you, that's your problem, it doesn't make it any less valid (or not, as the case may be), and is no excuse to start attacking him.

Otacon
 
send him a message to read this thread. After he has read it you will probably know exactly where you stand with him. Fingers crossed for a good outcome
 
Stop being young for a second and do the right thing.

You dumped him remember - you are the one screwing him around. How does he know you arent going to do it again?

It would take a lot to convince me.
 
Oh my.

Can't help but find this situation rather (scrap that, extremely) hilarious. It's your own doing I'm afraid.

Now...where's Mohinder with his reply :p

I'm guessing you're 13/14 by the way?

Edit: Hang on a second:

Im crying now as i write this, the reason i havent told u all this is because hes on this forum.
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!?!?!?!?! :confused:

You're deliberately posting this because he reads the forum I bet.

My god, whatever happened to speaking to someone face to face?

Goddamn MSN age.

Your issue is only an issue in the KoRn sense of the word in all honesty.
 
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As for your problems, I believe you need to make the next move. Using excuses like you don't want to get hurt will get you nowhere. The hurt has already happened, so now you either need to genuinely try to make it up to him, or live with what you have done.

Sorry, this is cold hard truth. Maybe not what you wanted to hear, but there we are.
 
You're young megzy, relationships rarely, if ever last at your age. Maybe it'll just be best if you move on and put it down to experience.
Have you ever considered that your ex bf is just putting on a front as to pretend he's not hurting.

You've brought this on yourself though.
 
You're both probably better off without each other, enjoy your life with you friends while you're young, dont try and act old before your time.

Simple problem is nobody ever listens to that advice, and its too late when they realise it.

A little bit of growing up wouldn't go wrong either though ;). Oh, and it was increadibly sensible to post on this forum, where you know he's going to see this thread.

//edit: Also you sound like you meant to hurt him by "dumping" him to get youre own way, and/or make him come running back to you. The good man hasn't fell for this, and now youre left feeling sorry for yourself.
 
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Oh, what tragedy!

Most lamentable day, most woful day, that ever, ever, I did yet behold! O day! O day! O day! O hateful day! Never was seen so black a day as this: O woful day, O woful day!
 
Carzy said:
!?!?!?!?! :confused:

You're deliberately posting this because he reads the forum I bet.

My god, whatever happened to speaking to someone face to face?

Goddamn MSN age.
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Agreed, I was just gonna post the same comment also, you should'nt be missing around like this if that's your game plan, like carzy says at least do the decent thing and speak to him face to face instead of using playschool girly tactics.
 
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