My Mum

Adam_151

Adam_151

Adam_151

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Been in hospital since easter now, doctors sat down and had a chat with us today, cancer... too far gone...she won't be comming home :( :( :(
 
So sorry to hear that mate :(

Not a lot we can say thats going to make you feel better, but just have the best time you can with her with the time she has left
 
Very sorry to hear that ...... hope you can spend some time with her and let her know how much she means to you.

Kind wishes for a difficult time ahead.
 
I hope you find comfort in the times you remember with her and the time you have left with her.

KaHn
 
Yeah, we were there this morning, I had to get away for a few hours, cramped and claustrophobic on the ward, and seeing her so frail and ill :(
will be composing myself and going back in later (thought I'd done that, but, its all come back now :( )

They did send her home on wednesday (at the time, we didn't know and just thought she was going home because the treatment had been done and just needed time to work, and no reason for her to stay there... :o ), but she got worse fast and had to go back in yesterday.

I kinda had an idea when my dad told me there would be a meeting with the doctors, but hearing it confirmed tore me up more than I could imagine :( :(
 
So sorry to hear that :(

My thoughts are with you and your family. Make the best of the time you have left with her hun x
 
What do you say, when somebody says this? :(

Chin up, like Von says be strong. Its all you can do.

I haven't got a clue how I'd cope if it happened to me, hat off to you sir.
 
Then you need to make her hospital bed like her home. Make sure she is comfortable and surrounded by the people she loves. :)

You have a hard time ahead as I'm sure you know, but the most important things to remember should be clear.
Remember her and love her when she's passed, that way, she'll never truly be gone. Be strong and be proud for your Mum, she'll always be with you in some form or fashion during your life.

Make the most the time you have left, and make sure your Mum sees you smiling mate, show her how strong you are. :)
 
Oh Adam mate.. I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish there was something I could say or do to help you - but there isn't anything I can think of. I imagine myself in your position and my heart aches for you. You just have to try and be strong and positive as best as you can be for her :(

You have my thoughts.
 
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