my rubbish life in one week.

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so first of all my dad passes away

its been so hard for me and im finding it hard to cope with this, reality still hasnt kicked in,

then my gf of a year calls a break

then i find out shes been cheating on mewith another guy

stoooory of my life.

i called to ask for the £100 bracelet and £50 that i gave her for the boarding lessons on a break we had in which she met the guy on. asked for this back and got her snotty mum on the phone fighting her battles

really cba with this

do i have any legal right to get this stuff back ?
 
said id ruin the guy and i can and would then her mum got ratty on the phone threatening legal action. typical mumsnet mum as well. i did specifically threaten him and i do admit i just hacked into her facebook JUST to see what scum she really is and it was confirmed too. i am best to just walk away. really sucks though dosent it.
 
its hurts though, i spent a whole year with her, genuinly best relationship i had. she told me never to compare her and shes not like other girls and shes goes and does this. and if thats not bad, whilst shes seeing this guy shes facebook mailing another lad ( a guy shes used as rebound with her previous ex) talking about having "private parties for 2 baby;) " it just hurts. ive been hurt a lot to be honest and i feel im better off on my own, i can at least trust myself. smash pasties from now on and only care about myself.
 
cant stop thinking about it, it keeps repeating through my head what shes done and all the parts of the puzzle are now starting to fit together it all makes sense now. cant sleep just wanna shut off.
 
A2Z said:
If I was you and I had her facebook details I would probably log in to it and send every single one of her friends a wall post saying something along the lines off 'I am a cheater I slept with someone else while still with my boyfriend' and post it as her status update, just so everybody she knows knew what kind of person she is. That would definately make me feel better :D and Im sure will cause a lot of questions for her which should make her uncomfortable.
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her mum phoned me and said if i dont stop shel get a solicitor involved.
 
didnt actually think she would take it upon herself to search the internet to see if i say anything about her. i would like to take it upon myself to be the better person nad explain this thread was only a rant, it was completely anonymous and nothing more needed to be done about this. she chose to post with her full name as a username and i dont want to be taking the flak for that that wasnt my action. it wasa way for me to get what i felt out. yes last night i was angry and ideally this thread shouldnt of bene made but i made it and thats that, it wasnt hurting her considering things were anonymous.

i stated facts, when you go on a break with the intention of not seeing other people then as far as im aware you are on a break with the intention of not seeing other people? .. it can be twisted whatever way it likes to be twisted but fact is, when you both agree to that and also blatently say ive not been seeing other people ive used to the time to be myself. keeping me hanging all this time for me to find out. then whether we were together or not the mutual agreement was still there and i consider that cheating.

regardless, it wasnt a month ago, it was 2 weeks ago if that and already out there looking. its not who i am and i can only find comfort that im not wasting my time anymore, i hurt and it will for a while but all i can do is get on with it. the thread was never here to slate her, personally. nobody knew who she was till she posted
 
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