new relationship, with complications

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right, not sure where to go with this one. am tired, so am doing to much thinking.

met a girl i had been chatting with for a few weeks on wed night, had a great time etc. then i was on 1/2 day yesterday, so i took her to the beach. had a great time. came to 11:30pm, and i said i better make a move ( 40mile drive ) well, she said it would be nice if i stayed.

bit of info, 22, ( i'm 25 ) from estonia, but lived over here for 2 years. and here's the tricky bit, she has 2 kids ( 3yrs and a 9month old, both boys. )

thats the only thing. how do other people cope with the extra "stress" at the start?
 
I'm not sure where the complication is. You will have to be more committed, will have to accept that her priorities will differ somewhat from the norm, and that sometimes you may have to give up time for kids, etc. but they're just kids :)

If you like her thats all that matters.
 
Gilly said:
I'm not sure where the complication is. You will have to be more committed, will have to accept that her priorities will differ somewhat from the norm, and that sometimes you may have to give up time for kids, etc. but they're just kids :)

If you like her thats all that matters.
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yeah, i guess i am doing to much thinking.
luckily the last few days the eldest has been at his grandparents. so its been a bit of a gentle ride. ( cant be bothered to make it sound decent ;) )

and if all estonian girls are like that, sweet jesus. :eek:
 
leaskovski said:
Count yourslef lucky. Im 27 and siiting watching tv on me todd drinking beer. :( Have some sympathy for me! :p
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I'm 26 and I'm sitting on my own not drinking beer and not watching telly!
 
fatmas said:
If your ok with her having kids, then what's the problem?
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well, the fact i am used to at the start of a relationship esp, having the woman to myself in a sense. i am fine with the idea. and hope i am adult enough to cope with it.
 
Ebay the kids, Eastern European Women are always selling their kids, drop it in a conversation over a bottle of wine ;)
 
leaskovski said:
Im not that kinda person, one of my old uni mates is! And a work collegue! He will drive round the country for a s.... lovely night :eek:
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lol. i dont quite go that far. but this year has erm, been... enlightening. ;)
 
leaskovski said:
Yeah, but you gotta bird? Right? :confused:
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Aye. Doesn't change the fact that I'm sat on my own in the house not doing anything but posting on a forum on a friday night.

I'm still massively hung over from last night :o
 
G|mp said:
Ebay the kids, Eastern European Women are always selling their kids, drop it in a conversation over a bottle of wine ;)
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lol. think she would kill me. but mayb an option. out of interest whats the going rate? :eek: :D
 
Gilly said:
Aye. Doesn't change the fact that I'm sat on my own in the house not doing anything but posting on a forum on a friday night.

I'm still massively hung over from last night :o
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See, least you got something goose! Nowt here, just Bill and Scarlet.
 
spike's said:
lol. think she would kill me. but mayb an option. out of interest whats the going rate? :eek: :D
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Ill give you a fiver for the eldest and 2 quid for the little one

Will you do a deal on postage?
 
G|mp said:
Ill give you a fiver for the eldest and 2 quid for the little one

Will you do a deal on postage?
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I think you've got to be looking at 10 quid including special delivery for saturday tbh - :D

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