Not such a sad day

Vita · 21 Sep 2015 at 17:43

Me and my wife are expecting our first child. Unfortunately our baby reduced his patterns of movement yesterday, alarm bells rang and I took her to hospital. They did a scan and said sorry that our baby didn't have a heart beat.

They've induced labour and we are waiting for it to start and for the baby to be born. I know our baby is going to be born still at birth but I'm still hoping a miracle happens and somehow our baby wakes up. Not sure how I'm feeling, I'm still in shock but I would like everyone to pray for us maybe a miracle will happen.

Forgot to mention she's at full term for the birth.

Greebo · 21 Sep 2015 at 17:45

My deepest sympathies and I hope for the best

malachi · 21 Sep 2015 at 17:49

HazardO · 21 Sep 2015 at 17:50

Devastating news. You and your wife must be distraught.

Remember you still have each other and however painful it is, there is always hope for another chance.

teenwolf · 21 Sep 2015 at 17:51

ah man that is such bad news. i have no words.
i hope you both pull through it ok.

my wife lost 2 and we have 3 children, just saying don't give up.

D.P. · 21 Sep 2015 at 17:57

Stuff like this scares me endlessly. Just found out my wife is expecting our next.

Deepest sympathies. I can only imagine how it must feel.

LoadsaMoney · 21 Sep 2015 at 17:57

That is sad news

All the best to you and your wife, and hope you pull through ok.

Jim99 · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:00

Sorry to hear that Vita, wishing you and your wife all the best.

Lemin · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:05

Very sad, deepest sympathies.

Maximum Triceratops · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:06

Sorry mate, stay strong.

dottty27 · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:09

Sorry for the loss

Iv been there before

antijoke · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:10

That sucks.

All the best to you and your wife.

spudbynight · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:10

Sorry for your loss. We lost two children ourselves.

I'll say a prayer for you all.

snips86x · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:11

Sorry to hear that

koolpc · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:11

So so sorry!! We are all here for you buddy. God bless you both and the little one

Soundood · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:15

so sorry to hear this matey,

if the worst is realised, then make sure you spend time with the baby, get as many photos as possible, to remember him/her by.

life can swing some severe swerve balls, but I have came to realise things always get better,

be strong for the wife.

jsmoke · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:15

Sad news, only recently found out this happened to my mother many years ago.

cheesyboy · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:16

Awful news mate

I've not experienced such a tragedy, we were fortunate with both ours, but a piece of advice I've heard is to make sure to take some pics, nice ones, of you both and your baby - you won't regret it.

Look after your Wife, and yourself, buddy.

Tunney · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:16

So sorry to hear that. I can't even begin to imagine what you're both going through right now.

TommyV · 21 Sep 2015 at 18:16

That's awful OP, thoughts are with you. Can't imagine what you're going through right now, as above remain in the best state of mind that you're able to, to support your wife.