How about you get an understanding that some people are devestated when they don't meet their own goals, however crazy they may seem to you? Just because he has chosen to aim high and is upset he missed doesn't make him a "poindexter"
It is probably retards like you that bring down the performance of other kids at school, because it is uncool to be a "poindexter" and instead cool to be a tard.
calm down tiger, it aint that serious