oh noes not another girl thread

[HypnoToad]

does anyone else here only seem to prefer certain type of girl? there's a girl at work who isn't the type of I normally go for at all - uses lots of make up and her main interest seems to be shopping lol. normally this is the last sort of girl i'd go for, but we get on pretty well and i quite like her so i'm tempted to ask her out for a drink or three.

soooooo, anyone gone for someone who you don't normally go for, and did it result in eternal bliss or some crazy drama that you'd try and avoid in future?

 

[HypnoToad]

Are you implying she's "dumb"? Dumb girls are fun to begin with, then they start getting annoying fast.

Every girl out there, at the moment, seems to be a dumbass - like "Legally Blonde" dumb.

i hear what you are saying, and she can be annoying at times, some things i've said to her have gone woooosh over her head, however she's not totally dumb.

Just go for it, you know you already want to, whats the worst that could happen?

well we don't have much in common, and i want to avoid having to spend all weekend getting dragged around clothes shops, i could be letting myself in for a world of pain here! that said, i still want to go for it

She turns out to be a bloke?

lol, my jaw would hit the floor i think, she's got lumps in the right places if yo uknow what i mean

 

[HypnoToad]

hey all, im not too bothered about the whole make up thing, it was only 1 of a few things that i mentioned after all. anyway ive decided to go for it, i think it may just be a case of me being too choosy. no ones perfect after all!

i imagine there are a few other issues with seeing someone from the office, but i haven't even asked her out yet so i'm not going to worry about these issues for now. wish me luck!

 

[HypnoToad]

it seems some people here are under my spell lol

good luck! too many NickG types who don't follow up

ok im following up right now.

Good luck man, usually people are in a good mood on Friday when at work, so that should be a good time to ask her I imagine. Just don't mention the destruction of baked goods while asking her...

lol i wont. my plan was to ask her today, that way i could take her out over the weekend. but ir turns out shes got today off! im not really sure what to do now, i guess i will have to wait until next week

 

[HypnoToad]

I went for a girl I don't normally go for and it didn't work out. She was a man.

well they say you should try anything once!

Just don't chicken out! Makesure you go for it! Best of luck mate

im not chickening out, i was hoping to ask her today in person, but im sat here in work while shes got the day off. i dont have her phone number either so i cant phone or text but i am friends with her on facebook. im tempted to ask her over facebook but this seems wrong to me, i am a few years older than her though, so maybe its considered normal these days? should i message her today on fb, or ask her out 'properly' in person next week?