Ok need some help here..

Deleted User 234324 · 31 Oct 2010 at 01:29

A massive decision has been thrust upon me!

Basically i've know this lass for over a year, we have been seeing each other for the past 5 months, nothing serious, we go out togeather, have a laugh and have some occasional "fun", she has a daugher who I get on with great.

Well tonight she said to me i'm seriously thinking about moving away from here (torbay) because i've had enough and would like for you (me) to move in with me, were only friends but to me it seems more than that, is she looking for a father figure or just someone familiar so she doesnt feel alone.

I'd do it in a heart beat because as much as we are only friends I love her to bits and she knows it.

Any and all advice welcome, should I go for it, its a risk but you only live once!

Deleted User 234324 · 31 Oct 2010 at 01:36

Its more for me and she knows it I tell her all the time I have feelings for her that go beyond friends, we talk to each other almost daily and go out most weekends.

She told me tonight that she has feelings for me that go beyond friends but if we move in togeather it would just be as friends and see how things go.

As for how I feel about her.. I'd move mountains for her if I could.

Deleted User 234324 · 31 Oct 2010 at 01:41

I work yes, she doesnt as she is currently working towards her NVQ L3 in social care.

I am seriously thinking about going for it but it would be a good idea for me to make sure my choice is based on the intention that will be more than just friends.

The feelings though are odd, I openly admit how I feel, she knows this, she on the other hand is very reserved and generally only ever tells me she really likes me, tonight she said (after a few drinks) that she does have more than just friend feelings for me, but not what those were.

Deleted User 234324 · 31 Oct 2010 at 01:53

The thing is trying to get any sort of emotional response out of her is like trying to get blood out of a stone, not because she doesnt feel anything but she's has her barriers up all the time, unless she has had a few drinks.

She said get a 3 bed house in Bristol (myself in one, her in another and daughter in the 3rd) but I honestly don't think i could live under the same roof as a house mate.