Older women

I don't know what it is about me as I certainly do not think of myself as very mature for my age, or indeed very atractive to the opposite sex, but I have always gone out with older women for some reason. Not by much mind, usually a year or two or so. I find that I am attracted to them more (though that could just be a fluke) and they appear to like me more than younger girls.

Anyway, I have just started seeing a lady who my sister introduced me to but the age gap, at least in my eyes, is quite large. She is five years my senior at the age of 39.

She is attractive, successful (runs two companies), very fit and very solvent. She also appears to come with no baggage and she makes me smile. She is quite the opposite of how I feel about myself at the moment as my confidence has been pretty low recently. I can't for the life of me work out why she likes me but she really does appear to.

Why am I worrying about the damn age thing. :confused:

Should I be worried about the age thing?

Old thread that is still going... but.... No. 5 year's? That is nothing. If the only thing stopping you is you worrying about what other's might think.. then it's not a problem. I actually can't believe you were asking the question about age difference given your age.

I'm not gonna trawl though your old posts.. but wonder if the relationship is still going? How do you feel about yourself now?

EDIT: ROFL... and I just looked up a few posts! Wow.. Congratulations!!! :-D Just get on with life and have fun with what it throws at you.
 
Dude...quit worryin about stuff like that. Its just a number. She makes you happy... She makes you smile.. You like being with her? She likes being with you?

Roll with it, enjoy it.

EDIT: Wait...what..just saw the above replies!!! (and noticed the the 2010 date of this thread lol)

Did you get married OP?? :)
 
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Did you get married OP?? :)

No, not yet. Came as a bit of a shock to be honest as though we had discussed it, we were going to wait a little while till we were in a better financial position.

Funny thing is, for all her worrying about being too old for being a mother, there was ONE time when we were not quite as careful as we should have been and, BAM!

My little soldiers clearly have super powers. :D
 
I'm 20 and I'm dating a 35 year old at the moment. What do you think of that?

I went out with a 27 year old when I was 18. Yes she's my ex. I still talk to her and she's going to be 30 this year.

Franco - fair play. Age is just a number. And if you love that person then so be it.

I would say I've got a thing for older women. And I'm not afraid to say it.
 
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