just wanted to offer some closure to my problem and hopefully at the same time offer some helpful advice/warnings to others.
I basically over tightened my 'be quiet' cpu cooler. in my defence, i've never fitted a cooler of this type where you screw on via the back (believe it or not).
Anyway, i think my first attempt at fitting the cooler was a little tight causing intermittent problems... ironically i thought it was too loose and then i reseated the cpu but this time making sure the screws were tight..BIG MISTAKE

(costly too... bye bye cpu and mob... )
I basically over tightened it on one particular corner to a point where some of the contacts on the cpu came off and was 'stuck' on the pins of the socket. Socket itself suffered bent contact pins... so sad
Anyway, whoever's getting similar led light/double boot problems, please reseat your cpu...loosen up those screws! obviously when you attach the cooler, just start out light and outside of the case..make sure it's all good before you put things together.
oh well... hope this helps someone.
i'm going to cry myself to sleep.. and in shame
