Its 1200grit and 800grit. They are finer sandpapers, they are less course the higher the number. 1 sheet of each should be plenty.
I wouldnt recomemend paint striper. As if its not clean after wards it will react with the fresh paint.
I think a common misconception is that you sand the surface so that the paint has something to hold on to, YOU DONT NEED TO GET RID OF ALL THE OLD PAINT. you will waste so much time doing so.
Obviously longer is better, but you wont need to leave your primer set for 12-14 hours unless your coats are very thick.
15mins and the paint will be touch dry for a good coat.
You can also use a hairdrier or a heatgun to persaude the process slightly. But yeah dont rush it.