Hey hey,
just bought this book that he's released, (title in the topic) and wanted to know if any one else has also been doing this ?
I could go into my life story, but i won't, i'll give you a brief outlook. Three years ago i started a new job (which i finish next week) and before that job i was the most unconfident person. I wouldn't ring for pizza's, taxi's, basically had a fear of using the phone. Up to the point where if any thing had to be done over the phone, someone else had to do it.
Started the job in I.T, building PC's and such, and slowly gained confidence from the people in the same building as me. Got promoted, and found a new job for a huge company. But i still lack the basic confidence a lot of people are naturally gifted with. I can't enter a club / pub, look at a girl and go over and chat which is something i've always wanted to do. The only time i have ever pulled in a pub / club is when a girl came up to me and initiated conversation. It's hard, it's like there is a big wall infront of me.
Upon reading through the first part's of this book, i already feel like i've changed, feel like a more confident person. The CD you get with the book is also a huge help, though it's better if you listen with stereo. You have music in the background, Paul chatting different things in your left and right ear, and to make a point he chats in both ears at the same time.
Now i don't remember what the CD is about, i've listened to it a few times and can only remember bits and bops (normal apparently) as this cd programs your unconcious mind to let go of your boundaries and become more naturally confident. Which it's definately done so far. I'm walking up straighter, my head is held higher, and i feel a glow about me which has been missing.
People who know me off these boards, will be saying to them selves "Wait a minute, this isn't Andy talking. He is a confident person" around people i know i am, but in most situations i'm not.
The main reason for me buying this book was that i start a new job in a week. With this new job brings a lot more new possibilities, and steps for progression. If i appear to be confident, and able about the work i do (which i can do very well) then i'm bound to move up the ladder a lot quicker.
Confidence is very often mixed up with arrogance (walking with head up in the skies is a sign of arrogance) but this is really not the case. Any one who suffers from low confidence, buy the book, learn the techniques, do what the book says and you will feel better about your self. I know i have.
I'll report back in a week or so, and tell you lot how i'm doing and what change's it's made to me. About to go listen to the CD before bed. People who have used this post back on here and we can share whats happened. Feel free to ask questions if you fany getting the book, you can pick it up from as little as £6 brand new. Whats that to most people ?!
just bought this book that he's released, (title in the topic) and wanted to know if any one else has also been doing this ?
I could go into my life story, but i won't, i'll give you a brief outlook. Three years ago i started a new job (which i finish next week) and before that job i was the most unconfident person. I wouldn't ring for pizza's, taxi's, basically had a fear of using the phone. Up to the point where if any thing had to be done over the phone, someone else had to do it.
Started the job in I.T, building PC's and such, and slowly gained confidence from the people in the same building as me. Got promoted, and found a new job for a huge company. But i still lack the basic confidence a lot of people are naturally gifted with. I can't enter a club / pub, look at a girl and go over and chat which is something i've always wanted to do. The only time i have ever pulled in a pub / club is when a girl came up to me and initiated conversation. It's hard, it's like there is a big wall infront of me.
Upon reading through the first part's of this book, i already feel like i've changed, feel like a more confident person. The CD you get with the book is also a huge help, though it's better if you listen with stereo. You have music in the background, Paul chatting different things in your left and right ear, and to make a point he chats in both ears at the same time.
Now i don't remember what the CD is about, i've listened to it a few times and can only remember bits and bops (normal apparently) as this cd programs your unconcious mind to let go of your boundaries and become more naturally confident. Which it's definately done so far. I'm walking up straighter, my head is held higher, and i feel a glow about me which has been missing.
People who know me off these boards, will be saying to them selves "Wait a minute, this isn't Andy talking. He is a confident person" around people i know i am, but in most situations i'm not.
The main reason for me buying this book was that i start a new job in a week. With this new job brings a lot more new possibilities, and steps for progression. If i appear to be confident, and able about the work i do (which i can do very well) then i'm bound to move up the ladder a lot quicker.
Confidence is very often mixed up with arrogance (walking with head up in the skies is a sign of arrogance) but this is really not the case. Any one who suffers from low confidence, buy the book, learn the techniques, do what the book says and you will feel better about your self. I know i have.
I'll report back in a week or so, and tell you lot how i'm doing and what change's it's made to me. About to go listen to the CD before bed. People who have used this post back on here and we can share whats happened. Feel free to ask questions if you fany getting the book, you can pick it up from as little as £6 brand new. Whats that to most people ?!
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