right, well i've finally got somewhere...i dissabled NAT on my router, rebooted, then tried to connect from my xbox. the 360 can now connect to the computer and i've re-enabled NAT...if the connection will stay after the xbox reboots too i don't know...but whilst its connected i don't want to bother trying that!
does anybody know how i can get it to work with NAT enabled if it stops working seen as though it obviously works with NAT disabled?
should i be able to connect to the 360 from the PC? if so how? cose atm i can't.