Not sure if this is the right sub forum for this but feel like a good rant!
a month back i got phone call from my ex who i have a 5 year old with , shes crying down the phone saying her partner (he moved in a couple of weeks before) has hit my lad and its bruised the top of his leg and bum and the school have gone to the police etc.
she said she heard the slap from downstairs.
He had to go to hospital and get checked out which i could see upset him.
his mum is sat there crying saying she hates her partner wants nothing to do with him blah blah
the social worker tells her my lad has to come back with me instead of his mum as they hadnt arrested her partner yet. He then gets arrested and puts on bail, his dad gets his stuff from the house and i hope that is the end of
When i was watching my lad at football with his mum(we get on alright) said her partner (who's not allowed to contact her or my lad) has contacted her mum saying hes sorry , he wish her could turn things back and what not and wants to sit down with her and speak to me(yes thats right me?! if i wasn't working somewhere in which any sort of criminal record would loose my job i'd have smashed the ****ers face in!).
I told her shes stupid if shes considering it and she said she wasnt.
My lad still mentions about the time he hit him so still fresh in his memory.
Well on sunday i went to pick him up and she said his bails up and they're cautioning him. Sorry but i think this is not enough! To bruise a bum and to hit so hard to hear it downstairs is not a knee jerk reaction thats hitting with intent to do damage! If it was his head we could be looking at a lot more serious damage! He should have more done. They wonder how child abuse happens ?! by not doing enough!
Well today his mum whos off to america on wednesday (her partner paid for his flight prior to the incident) said they're trying again!!
To say i'm seething is an understatement! i understand its not my say what she does in her love life, but surely this is bang out of order!
Next time which i think there will be it may be more serious.
Social worker wants him to go on an anger management course.
its proper ** No disguised swearing - EVH ** because it seems there's bugger all i can do. i can't afford to take her through courts to try getting custody and lets face it dads often get **** on when it comes to courts against mums.
i've tried talking to her and persuading her else wise but she seems to be putting her life ahead of my lads.
so in short his mums selfish and the system is ****.
Rant over !
a month back i got phone call from my ex who i have a 5 year old with , shes crying down the phone saying her partner (he moved in a couple of weeks before) has hit my lad and its bruised the top of his leg and bum and the school have gone to the police etc.
she said she heard the slap from downstairs.
He had to go to hospital and get checked out which i could see upset him.
his mum is sat there crying saying she hates her partner wants nothing to do with him blah blah
the social worker tells her my lad has to come back with me instead of his mum as they hadnt arrested her partner yet. He then gets arrested and puts on bail, his dad gets his stuff from the house and i hope that is the end of
When i was watching my lad at football with his mum(we get on alright) said her partner (who's not allowed to contact her or my lad) has contacted her mum saying hes sorry , he wish her could turn things back and what not and wants to sit down with her and speak to me(yes thats right me?! if i wasn't working somewhere in which any sort of criminal record would loose my job i'd have smashed the ****ers face in!).
I told her shes stupid if shes considering it and she said she wasnt.
My lad still mentions about the time he hit him so still fresh in his memory.
Well on sunday i went to pick him up and she said his bails up and they're cautioning him. Sorry but i think this is not enough! To bruise a bum and to hit so hard to hear it downstairs is not a knee jerk reaction thats hitting with intent to do damage! If it was his head we could be looking at a lot more serious damage! He should have more done. They wonder how child abuse happens ?! by not doing enough!
Well today his mum whos off to america on wednesday (her partner paid for his flight prior to the incident) said they're trying again!!
To say i'm seething is an understatement! i understand its not my say what she does in her love life, but surely this is bang out of order!
Next time which i think there will be it may be more serious.
Social worker wants him to go on an anger management course.
its proper ** No disguised swearing - EVH ** because it seems there's bugger all i can do. i can't afford to take her through courts to try getting custody and lets face it dads often get **** on when it comes to courts against mums.
i've tried talking to her and persuading her else wise but she seems to be putting her life ahead of my lads.
so in short his mums selfish and the system is ****.
Rant over !
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