My patio pointing is awful on my new place, the previous owners seem to have done a bit of a DIY job on it and the pointing is falling apart. Don't think they used enough cement as the pointing is really soft, probably used too much sand.
I may have to live with it for a while though, I'd like to sort it out but spent a lot on the inside already, so the outdoor part can probably wait until things get a bit clearer with the corona situation as well.