Ohhh, a nice collection of great posts here.
So, in conclusion, I think it's safe to say that the people who work hard, deserve their "gift" and that others are lazy or maybe don't have the time to devote to certain subject areas, like learning a new language.
It's my belief that everyone has the capacity to train their brain in whatever area they wish. Soul Rider, their is no doubt in my mind that if you went out and just simply forced yourself to talk to people, communicate and be open about your thoughts, that'd you'd simply learn to become a lot better at face to face social situations.
The world in which we live in is hectic, and not many people are fortunate enough to develop themselves fully, or simply because of the pressure they put themselves under from the word "Go", by telling themselves "I've never been good at languages, I can't learn Chinese" when, in reality... they really could learn it with no problems.
The placebo effect can work the other way, too. If you
believe you can do something, then you can.
Three years ago, I never thought I'd be sitting here learning 5 languages at once whilst also finding it quite easy. As time has gone by it has become a lot easier for me to understand, learn and use different languages.
This will simply be because;
A) I want to
B) I believe I can, and;
C) My brain has grown used to and made more permanent connections in the area of shape recognition (Japanese, for example) and grown used to differences in word order/usage and sentence construction.
For me, the social aspect has always been lacking, but it is something which I've developed and worked around. It's no longer an issue.
Nice conclusion I think, and a very interesting subject if you sit alone for a minute and actually think about it.
Phil.