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Rossi

Rossi

Rossi

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Hi Peeps,

Well what a crap weekend im having! Went to a party last night and found my gf and my best mate kissing. I feel horrible and all my friends and family have said get rid of her. Im 19 so is she, and she has twins which when im over at hers i look after and treat them as my own. Im not a strong emotionally person and i feel weak when i cry every two minutes.

What i wanted to know really has anyone gone through this and how did you deal with it because i feel horrible. Can relationships still work after this or wah?

Probably a poo thread just wanted to get it off my chest and abit of advice.

R
 
Get rid of her straight away, she's just taking the **** out of you, don't even try & make it work.
 
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I think rachel in Friends said that, I don't live by that, I do live by this.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
 
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JohnnyG said:
Get rid of her straight away, she's just talking the **** out of you, don't even try & make it work.
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I agree. Your young and you dont need to be dealing with stuff like that. Get rid of her, she obviously doesnt appreciate you.
 
So she's already got children and now she's cheating on you? She's a little bit on the promiscuous side don't you think?

Get rid of her mate, you can do better. Holding onto her will only be humouring yourself.
 
What has made kinda feel sorry for her(and i dont know why) is that when we sat down and spoke to her she said she felt like the most uglyest person there. And you know she tried to make sound like it was my fault that she did it because of the way she was feeling.

My mate has a gf who down staires and god i was so close to telling her but i know it would break her hart! This morning before i left she wont even talk to me as in im the one in the wrong!!

R
 
Honestly, this is probably the worst way to feel. It just keeps going round in your head and you keep thinkin 'how the hell could she!?!'. But you MUST try and get out with your mates. Just go round someones, play a bit of xbox or summit and it can do absolute wonders. Sitting at home is 100% the absolute wrong thing to do. Give it a week and you'll be a lot more stable. And don't take her back.

Usually i'm one for forgiving, but this is textbook "Get rid of that ****".

Good luck, its going to be a bumpy ride, but give it a couple of days and i promise that it'll not be half as bad as it is now.

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Rossi said:
What has made kinda feel sorry for her(and i dont know why) is that when we sat down and spoke to her she said she felt like the most uglyest person there. And you know she tried to make sound like it was my fault that she did it because of the way she was feeling.

My mate has a gf who down staires and god i was so close to telling her but i know it would break her hart! This morning before i left she wont even talk to me as in im the one in the wrong!!

R
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From reading this, my opinion has gone from 'be rid of her' to 'burn her'. And you should tell your "best mates" girlfriend. She 110% has a right to know. And who knows? Could be a blessing in disguise, you two might go "hand in hand" ;)
 
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if you stay with her you will always be wondering who she's gonna be with next and this will just cause even more resentment, this won't be good for you or any kids in the relationship so probably best to walk away now a chalk it up a experience
 
Leave her! Dealing with other relationship problems is just normal, but cheating is a no no! Nothing here to fix. It wasnt an accident. She's not sorry about it! And your friend needs a good beating! :rolleyes:
 
Rossi said:
What has made kinda feel sorry for her(and i dont know why) is that when we sat down and spoke to her she said she felt like the most uglyest person there. And you know she tried to make sound like it was my fault that she did it because of the way she was feeling.

My mate has a gf who down staires and god i was so close to telling her but i know it would break her hart! This morning before i left she wont even talk to me as in im the one in the wrong!!

R
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Your girlfriend's a cheat.

Your best mate's a ****.

Tell his girlfriend what he did, and drop the pair of them.
 
Rossi said:
What has made kinda feel sorry for her(and i dont know why) is that when we sat down and spoke to her she said she felt like the most uglyest person there. And you know she tried to make sound like it was my fault that she did it because of the way she was feeling.

My mate has a gf who down staires and god i was so close to telling her but i know it would break her hart! This morning before i left she wont even talk to me as in im the one in the wrong!!

R
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For God's sake don't fall for that one!
She's the bad one here, don't you dare feel guilty :mad:
 
Rossi said:
What has made kinda feel sorry for her(and i dont know why) is that when we sat down and spoke to her she said she felt like the most uglyest person there. And you know she tried to make sound like it was my fault that she did it because of the way she was feeling.

My mate has a gf who down staires and god i was so close to telling her but i know it would break her hart! This morning before i left she wont even talk to me as in im the one in the wrong!!

R
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She sounds like she's constiantly seeking validation and as such attention seeking. You're best to get rid.
 
Rossi said:
What has made kinda feel sorry for her(and i dont know why) is that when we sat down and spoke to her she said she felt like the most uglyest person there. And you know she tried to make sound like it was my fault that she did it because of the way she was feeling.

My mate has a gf who down staires and god i was so close to telling her but i know it would break her hart! This morning before i left she wont even talk to me as in im the one in the wrong!!

R
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Tell her thats bs and you never want to speak to her again! Its not your fault, its hers. End of!
 
Yucca said:
Leave her! Dealing with other relationship problems is just normal, but cheating is a no no! Nothing here to fix. It wasnt an accident. She's not sorry about it! And your friend needs a good beating! :rolleyes:
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My mate wanted me to hit him but im not that kind of person. He is he godfather to the twins and they r very close since they were kids due to them kinda calling them selves cousins.

I told him that this party was **** because of the people who were there. Some of his mates were smoking weed and tbh those kind of people are not the kind of people i want to meet or even put eyes on.

R
 
Look there is no good excuse for what he or her did. It doesnt matter how close they are or how long they have known each other. Cheating is cheating. I would tell them both that they have hurt your feelings a lot and tell them where to shove it. Leave the two of them to each other.
 
Mohinder said:
Your girlfriend's a cheat.

Your best mate's a ****.

Tell his girlfriend what he did, and drop the pair of them.
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Its kinda harsh, but I agree, they made their bed, let them sleep in it.....

Ok I agree, that was a bad phrasing of the sentence.

Burnsy
 
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