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Ok, this is a bit long, but I would really appreciate people's advice.
I am self employed and make high end clothing. The clothing is made to order and is discussed one to one and then an invoice is given for payment.
Recently I have had trouble with a person who arranged an order and now hasn't paid for 3 weeks and come up with a myriad of excuses.
If I spend several e-mails discussing details of an outfit, investing time and energy into designing the outfit (sketching etc), only to have someone say they have no money and I will have to wait to they do.
If you were in a store you would have to pay instantly, if you bought online, you would have to pay instantly.
If you are invoiced, you pay OR you provide an explantion or further arrangements.
I am very understanding and will try to accomodate any genuine change of arrangement. However this person has done this twice, and the explanations are less than convincing - although they did eventually pay the first time.
I feel my goodwill is being taken advantage of and I resent this greatly.
If someone cannot afford something, I would rather they wait until they can, instead of me building it into my schedule.
Although I havent created two of the items, one of the items was 'purchased' ready made and as a one woman operation I don't have the financial flexibility to fill in gaps created by people who don't pay within reasonable time after giving a final confirmation.
I purchase materials, I invest in planning - time which could have been better spent elsewhere.
I would really appreciate other peoples opinions on this. I consider myself a reasonable person and try to accomodate individuals as much as possible (I have never had a problem where both parties couldn't agree on something), but where is the line?
Am I over reacting? Considering this is quite a big order, should I just accept the inconveniences and carry on, or should I make a stand in some way?
Thank you
I am self employed and make high end clothing. The clothing is made to order and is discussed one to one and then an invoice is given for payment.
Recently I have had trouble with a person who arranged an order and now hasn't paid for 3 weeks and come up with a myriad of excuses.
If I spend several e-mails discussing details of an outfit, investing time and energy into designing the outfit (sketching etc), only to have someone say they have no money and I will have to wait to they do.
If you were in a store you would have to pay instantly, if you bought online, you would have to pay instantly.
If you are invoiced, you pay OR you provide an explantion or further arrangements.
I am very understanding and will try to accomodate any genuine change of arrangement. However this person has done this twice, and the explanations are less than convincing - although they did eventually pay the first time.
I feel my goodwill is being taken advantage of and I resent this greatly.
If someone cannot afford something, I would rather they wait until they can, instead of me building it into my schedule.
Although I havent created two of the items, one of the items was 'purchased' ready made and as a one woman operation I don't have the financial flexibility to fill in gaps created by people who don't pay within reasonable time after giving a final confirmation.
I purchase materials, I invest in planning - time which could have been better spent elsewhere.
I would really appreciate other peoples opinions on this. I consider myself a reasonable person and try to accomodate individuals as much as possible (I have never had a problem where both parties couldn't agree on something), but where is the line?
Am I over reacting? Considering this is quite a big order, should I just accept the inconveniences and carry on, or should I make a stand in some way?
Thank you
