What the post modern cultural marxist identity politics types would have you believe is that starting every sentence you utter with "so" is a good and decent way to orient yourself in the world. WRONG. It's like, sure there's some compelling arguments to be made, but if you study the clinical literature there's not one shred of evidence for that behaviour being a predictor of success. NOT ONE. Now you might think "OK, so I just won't say "so" at all", well what sort of bloody medium to long term strategy is that? I'm sorry but it's just not a good one, at all. Follow that for a few weeks and see where you end up, but I'll tell you, I've seen at least a few dozen examples of how that plays out in my clinical practice and it is unbelievably brutal. It's like "Well OK maybe I don't know when I'm supposed to say" so" anymore", so what are you supposed to do, eh? The answer is "say it at the end of bloody sentences!", and you're pathetic and useless and unreliable so you'll only do it maybe 20% of the time, and you might think "well if I don't try I can't fail". OK, but that means you'll just fail all the time then, except you won't know it, not until you fail so hard you're just done, and that can easily happen by the time your post count hits 10,000. At least that's how it seems to me, so...