In my experience of both the PSN is a VERY solitary experience, which I guess suites a lot of people on here. XBL is focussed around your friends and social gaming with messaging, invites, lobbys, private chat, video, friends list and gamerscore etc. The only problem with it is the lack of dedicated servers.
I see but PSN has pretty much all of the features you mentioned AND dedicated servers, so I still don't see the big difference why everyone on here goes on about Live being soooo much better than PSN. I am genuinely confused
