Talking about her ex - why does it upset me?

[qwerty]

Firstly is it just me or do all guys get a bit upset/feel weird when your girl talks about her ex?

And why do they always want to stay friends? To me that just stinks of 'I want to stay in his good books in case it goes **** up with you'. Like some sort of insurance policy.

Anyway, I got upset about it last night, but being a guy I couldn't tell her how I was really feeling and now I just feel stupid and like I've messed up when I haven't.

I need a hug

 

[qwerty]

It takes two to tango, even if she's keeping the ex as a friend, who says he wants her?

He does. He keeps txting her, and calling her, sometimes freaking her out quite a lot. He's asked if she wants to be **** buddies, says he really minds she's with another guy, drew a massive portrait of her (he's an artist, but still so creepy)

In reality though, you simply need to ask her who has the biggest willy. Should sort a lot of it out.

Already asked, many times. She always dodges the question which leads me to the obvious conclusion

I think we need to talk...straighten it out. Maybe I'm just making a big deal over it because we haven't seen each other for 2 weeks (longest ever time apart). You start making stuff up in your head.