Tall, dark and handsome?

theres a woman out there for every bloke
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Yes you are quite right.
Sadly the only ones I tend to get interest from are foul mouthed hogs who love getting hammered every night. :( Oh and they also have bad hygene :(
all you need is confidence. How many ugly little short guys do you see with stunners because of this.
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Yes I have seen this (rare from where I am) I can't help but think they must be with them because they have a very successful career or have a huge wang....Or maybe both lol.


Some interesting responses so far though :) Keep them coming people.
 
Toxic Babyface said:
Yes I have seen this (rare from where I am) I can't help but think they must be with them because they have a very successful career or have a huge wang....Or maybe both lol.
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Also not forgetting the amount of jealous, insecure, needy, just plain crazy women that will bat far below their standard just to walk all over a guy to feel better about themselves.

I've seen it done and know of one or two.
 
Someone out there for you. Personality and confidence, I’m tall, quite dark haired and been told handsome (this is based on opinions of others not my own) and snagged my current gf because she said I made her laugh. Don’t figure.

Seriously, don’t be fooled by this looks means everything… I was at one time too. Its all about how you sell yourself, be yourself but be confident. Most woman don’t care what you look like, they mostly want a man to take care of them, love them and make them feel good about themselves and feel part of something, and that has naff all to do with looks.
 
Also not forgetting the amount of jealous, insecure, needy, just plain crazy women that will bat far below their standard just to walk all over a guy to feel better about themselves.

I've seen it done and know of one or two.
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Really? Oh man that's bad :(
My ex used to walk all over me but she sure was'nt a stunner (dont mean that to sound nasty)
 
I'm tall ( 6 foot 3 ) don't meet the other criteria but when a girl finds out I can breath through my ears and I have my prince Albert pierced they normally forget about the other stuff :)
 
Toxic Babyface said:
Yes you are quite right.
Sadly the only ones I tend to get interest from are foul mouthed hogs who love getting hammered every night. :( Oh and they also have bad hygene :(


Yes I have seen this (rare from where I am) I can't help but think they must be with them because they have a very successful career or have a huge wang....Or maybe both lol.


Some interesting responses so far though :) Keep them coming people.
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Some girls just like the bad boy or those they think are great in bed or can provide a lavish lifestyle etc. Generally those are the ones to stay away from, a decent girl who is into you won't be interested in if you treat her mean and keep her keen, or are fabulous in bed.. Her interest in you alone means games like this aren't needed. Sex will be something you learn together, and get better over time. Being great in bed, or having a huge wang isn’t what decent girls are looking for. trust me..

Insecurity for woman is a major problem however, some are better with it then others but you need to just get out there and find someone who likes you for you. And you will. But don’t be surprised that once you find a girl a lot of effort to keep her is required, even if she is a pure heart of gold lass. They need to feel secure, and this is more important to them then how you look or how much you earn or how big your pecker is..!!
 
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Some girls just like the bad boy or those they think are great in bed or can provide a lavish lifestyle etc. Generally those are the ones to stay away from, a decent girl who is into you won't be interested in if you treat her mean and keep her keen, or are fabulous in bed.. Her interest in you alone means games like this aren't needed. Sex will be something you learn together, and get better over time. Being great in bed, or having a huge wang isn’t what decent girls are looking for. trust me..
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i have had 2 relationships after great first time sex, neither lasted at all :(

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Sone said:
i have had 2 relationships after great first time sex, neither lasted at all :(
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ditto, had a girl years ago and we had great first time sex, I thought we'd be together for ever.. Yeah right... Said I wasn't what she was looking for three months later. Pah..!! So much for being steller in bed eh? Although, just because I thought that, maybe she didn't..

either way, yep. Decent girls are after more then just good bedroom antics. They want something a bit more special then this...
 
Some girls just like the bad boy or those they think are great in bed or can provide a lavish lifestyle etc. Generally those are the ones to stay away from, a decent girl who is into you won't be interested in if you treat her mean and keep her keen, or are fabulous in bed.. Her interest in you alone means games like this aren't needed. Sex will be something you learn together, and get better over time. Being great in bed, or having a huge wang isn’t what decent girls are looking for. trust me..

Insecurity for woman is a major problem however, some are better with it then others but you need to just get out there and find someone who likes you for you. And you will. But don’t be surprised that once you find a girl a lot of effort to keep her is required, even if she is a pure heart of gold lass. They need to feel secure, and this is more important to them then how you look or how much you earn or how big your pecker is..!!
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I just find it really difficult to find any decent girls really. I have tried internet dating (fail and just a bad idea I have learned)
I guess I should just get on with life until I meet that special person.
 
For me toxic the golden rules are
1) Be happy with yourself, if you are not happy alone you will no be happy in a relationship
2) As before confidence. Just practise talking to women, even just going down the shopping centre chatting to shop assistants is a start.
3) You are a good catch, you deserve a decent woman! Her loss if she says no
 
Toxic Babyface said:
I just find it really difficult to find any decent girls really. I have tried internet dating (fail and just a bad idea I have learned)
I guess I should just get on with life until I meet that special person.
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Perfect... Single clubs where you go and mingle with like minded folks are great for this... You just go out, meet folks and make friends and who knows.. That one lass could be there waiting for you.

As I was told years ago. Love can't be found, it finds you. and it will one day. And you won't be too old, too ugly or too fat. she'll find something in you she likes and you'll find she is decent..

Or you don't find she is decent and you marry the cow and she takes the clothes off your back..:p

no really, just get out... Internet dating BTW I think is dating by numbers. Works for some, not for others.
 
For me toxic the golden rules are
1) Be happy with yourself, if you are not happy alone you will no be happy in a relationship
2) As before confidence. Just practise talking to women, even just going down the shopping centre chatting to shop assistants is a start.
3) You are a good catch, you deserve a decent woman! Her loss if she says no
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Thanks for the advice Sone :)

Perfect... Single clubs where you go and mingle with like minded folks are great for this... You just go out, meet folks and make friends and who knows.. That one lass could be there waiting for you.

As I was told years ago. Love can't be found, it finds you. and it will one day. And you won't be too old, too ugly or too fat. she'll find something in you she likes and you'll find she is decent..

Or you don't find she is decent and you marry the cow and she takes the clothes off your back..

no really, just get out... Internet dating BTW I think is dating by numbers. Works for some, not for others.
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I can't find any singles clubs down my way :o I did attend one once when I was about 22 and it was full of nice girls :) Only problem was that most of them seemed to have brought boyfriends along. It did seem a bit of a farce at the time. There was however a middle aged lady who came over and kept flirting with me. She soon changed her mind though and said 'I was too young for her' lol.

Internet dating failed terribly for me :( The amount of loonies and idiots I have had interest from :eek:
 
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Oh an OP relax and get comfortable with yourself. There is a decent girl out there. It was a while before I found mine and I found her totally out of the blue.
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Thanks LordSplodge. I think this is the problem I have currently... I can't help but see myself as somebody who will never be able to get a decent girlfriend.
I must learn to overcome this I guess :)
 
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