This is just stupid!

Priapus

Priapus

Priapus

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Howzit all.

well before I tell you guys what this thread is actually about, let me just tell you the backround. As some of you may or may not know, I moved back to my home country, South Africa. This was 4 months ago now. And on the second month of being back here I met a nice girl, who now I'm dating and have been dating for 2/3 months. Already I feel like I'm in love with her. And she feels the same way, almost like we were meant to be...

Now I work, Monday to Saturday - 8 -5pm. I hardly See her. I mean once a week, twice if I'm lucky.

I spoke to her yesterday on my cellphone for about 30 minutes. And the day before that and almost every other day I sms her. Now, I want to phone her again, but don't. I mean I really want to speak to her, just to hear her voice. But I don't want to become a 'pest' to her and bug her.

So the question is, do I ride this out and leave it until she calls me. Or do I call her on Friday, end of the week to see if she is coming round mine on Sunday. See, I want to call her, but don't. Just this urge to pick up my cell and call her just to see how she is. But I know woman (or some) hate it when their partner keeps in touch every day all the time. I know she probably doesn't feel this way. I think maybe I just want her to call or contact me first. Not too sure.

Now to me this is all just stupid and pathetic, however I seriously cannot help the way I feel.

Any advice at all, guys and girls?

Thanks guys!

Ciao.
 
Do whatever you want to, and stop worrying about "rules". Or if you're really worried about crowding her tell her to warn you if you;re getting too much! :p

Personally I really like it when someone gets in contact to just say hi or to see how I'm doing - it's nice :)
 
Hi Kell,

Ya, so do I. I like it when people phone just to see how I am. Wait, I don't get many of those calls. :( :)

And I don't want to ask her to warn me ect, because she will say I'm not.

Edit: You're right, I'll just 'Go with the flow', as they call it. :p
 
Haha that's quality Borris, for a moment there I was a bit 'Hmm..when the hell did I post that? :p '

:D :D

*touches*
 
Have you thought that maybe she's doing exactly the same thing? Wanting to call but not wanting to pester?

Bottom line, if she's nearly in love with you, you will not be able to pester her enough!
 
sara said:
Have you thought that maybe she's doing exactly the same thing? Wanting to call but not wanting to pester?

Bottom line, if she's nearly in love with you, you will not be able to pester her enough!
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This is true. I know she can't call me or sms me as she has no airtime. However I'll get her some soon. Down here in South Africa we have what's called a 'Please Call Me' This is a free sms you can send five times a day on your cellphone with the words 'Please Call Me' and your cellphone number. She has this thing where she puts little messages in it saying, "LoveU:)" or similer. Which is pretty cool.

And on our VodaCom network you can get a R49 sms bundel which give you 150 free sms's. :D Going to get her one and myself one. Next week when I get paid. :)

I just miss her a lot although I only saw her last week. I know she will wanting me to call her, but I don't want to just yet. Going to leave it untill tomorrow or Monday. Depends on how it goes.

End of the day I love her more then anything and I know for a fact she feels the same way about me so I won't worry about silly things like this. :p

Thanks for the help, Sara. :cool:
 
be cool, there are no rules
just do what you think is right
and dont kick up a fight
...now this wasnt meant to be a poem Ice
but it seems its turned into one..so..
pick up that phone and just be nice




*takes a bow and walks off stage*
 
Phantom said:
be cool, there are no rules
just do what you think is right
and dont kick up a fight
...now this wasnt meant to be a poem Ice
but it seems its turned into one..so..
pick up that phone and just be nice




*takes a bow and walks off stage*
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*Applauds*

Just do whatever feels right.
 
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