Trust

[Talbs13]

Need your help.

Long Distance Relationships are hard. I sometimes have hard times trusting her. I won't go into all details but just thought i would ask you guys.

How do you improve your trust?

Silly Question

Thanks,
J

 

[Talbs13]

Its been 13 months and its getting tough. UK Visa Rejected. Was hoping to spend Christmas together and New Year. Everything seems to be going wrong.

Tonight she is with her friend and ignore my calls for nearly 6 hours. Then when she answered she said she was busy and hung up, turned her phone off etc. I'm just left thinking why? lol.

I have nobody to talk to about this.

 

[Talbs13]

Dont try to improve your trust, can that even be done? improve your own self confidence.

This is my problem. I have ALWAYS lacked self-confidence. I've tried books, cd's etc. Sometimes i'm fine and sometimes i am just so down and always thinking something bad of her, that she is doing something wrong when in actual fact it's all my fault and i'm just being paranoid.

 

[Talbs13]

She has lots of guy friends which i seem to have a problem with. She used to club all the time and says she has never done anything wrong or anything that would affect her self-respect (sleeping with guy from club etc). I believe her, of course.

I'm sure most guys would not like it if your girlfriend was spending lots of time with other guys (espcially in a LDR). But i'm sure she wouldnt like it if i would do the same with other girls.