Virginity

Voltar · 13 Jan 2009 at 15:25

Why does this have no real attached values to it?

The only time value is given to it, we are presented by a rather backward idea of religious moralities.

What are your views on the subject of Virginity, being a Virgin and losing your Virginity.

Sensible thread, I'd appreciate it if trolls stayed under their bridges for this thread. I'd like to know your opinions, and if possible female opinions on it.

One thing I was wondering is: men are pleased when the girl is a virgin. Women are not so pleased.

What do you all have to say about this?

Voltar · 13 Jan 2009 at 15:34

Interesting posts so far!

Are you all in agreement that its a backward notion or at least a Romantic notion, and that no real value should be attached?

Voltar · 13 Jan 2009 at 15:37

DanTheMan said:
The only time virginity and the like really mean anything is when you're a virgin yourself. Once you lose it you realise that sex is just about fun and games, none of this emotional malarky.

Good answer.

Voltar · 13 Jan 2009 at 15:47

Ok, I see that this is getting derailed somewhat so I'll pose another thought to you all:

I'm sure you've all read the thread about the girl selling her virginity for 2.6 million.
Why did none of you find her age strange?
Is it not strange in this day and age to be a virgin much after the age of say 18? Do you perceive it as weird that someone would 'wait' or indeed would you wonder how they could have actually made it refusing or ignoring all that sex?

Voltar · 13 Jan 2009 at 16:26

It's quite a tough one:

You get someone back to bed with you and they are 22 (like the £2.6M one) blurt out 'it's my 1st time' or some other cliche. Then what? Lose your boner or lose your desire?

One of your friends tells you that he/she is still a virgin. Yet in the time you've known them they have talked and joked with you and the others about sex etc. How does that affect your view of them if at all?

If you found out a guy or girl who you're interested in (and vice versa) is a virgin what do you think? To put my own opinion in here, I'd probably think nothing of it and be flattered that they would want to give it to me as it were. Mainly this is due to my age (21)

Voltar · 13 Jan 2009 at 16:35

Interesting post RossG.

I think that the main factor from what I've been told is the great anxiety in the inner debate regarding the waiting part and the going for it part.