i cant see neither a safely remove by doing either
(Edit) If you open up "My Computer" and then right click on the removable device, their should be an option called "Safely Remove", if you click on that option. It has the same effect as if you did it the other way.
you don't really need the safely remove thing anyway. you should be able to access the drive properties (right click it from my computer) and set it so that you can just unplug it when you're done.
to be honest i thought of both of these or tehre about to no avail.. would u be kind enough to post a screen shot so i can check against my options?