Was i wrong?

Soldato
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During one module at University we have to be in groups of 2/3 to do this particular assignment (analysis and design). Me and my mate have been through high school and a HND together and we drive each other to university everyday so clearly we're doing the assignment together.

There was a lad who was sitting near us (overseas student, call it ignorance but i'm not entirely sure of his nationality, but he's from the East) who was the only person to raise his hand when the tutor asked who didn't have a group. Nothing more was said until the end of the lesson where our tutor came over and asked if we minded if he joined up with us. Now obviously we're not going to say no right infront of him, so we agreed and he came over to us and we started discussing how we were going to do the assignment.

After a few minutes it became clear that it was going to be difficult, I found it hard to communicate with him as he couldn't really understand me fully.

Whilst we were driving home me and my mate agreed that I'd email him and basically tell him we didn't want to be in a group with him. It would have been difficult with us two not living at Uni, and we felt that we'd be way more organised if it was just the pair of us. So I emailed him and he replied saying "Ok thats fine" but I know he'll be a week behind now as he'll most likely have to wait until next week to sort a group again.

Was we wrong to basically "kick him out". I feel quite bad in fairness. I don't want my tutor to think i'm racist or anything it's just a simple fact that we're more comfortable working with each other rather than with a stranger as well.
 
ci_newman said:
Agreed BUT its your education you've got think of too. I worked with a couple of half-wits during my time at Uni and it reflected badly in my grades on occasion. You might not be in your tutors best books but that can't affect the marking of the project.

thats how I see it. Why should i put myself through extra stress and possibly hinder my grade in the module? (as well as other modules as having him in our group would mean we'd have to spend more time going to Uni, as our timetables differ). Should we need to get together outside of lecture times it would most likely mean an extra journey to uni which is an hour round trip. Whereas if it's just me and my mate I can just go down the road to his house.

I do feel selfish but at the end of the day number 1 comes first :rolleyes:
 
calling me a **** is a little harsh. The only reason we emailed him is because that's the only detail he gave us and we dont share another module with him so I wouldn't see him until next week. So i thought it was best to let him know straight away.
 
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