Weird situation - about a girl thread

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Ok so I have perhaps a bit of an odd "problem". Maybe not so much of a problem, but we'll see (maybe typing will help).

Ok, I've recently met someone I really genuinely like. I won't go into details, but needless to say, she's a friendly girl, especially towards me.

Now this week she's stayed at mine twice. No problem I hear you say? Well I agreee, but as I said, I genuinely like her. Not just "Oh yeah I'd hit that" kind of thing, bbut interest in her properly. She seems to react well to me, and has fed me several compliments, however I'm not entirely sure whether I ought to take this further.

Maybe a forum full of computer forum guys isn''t the BEST place to pose this sort of question. But basically it's a case of do I actually go for something, or do I leave it how it is for now.


Normally I'd make a real move myself, But the fact that she's a couple years older than me really is a bit of a factor... perhaps I'm slightly intimidated by the age factor as one girl here turned me down on that basis not TOO long ago, but is this actually a factor, and should I let it get to me.



Anyway, I am slightly drunk having recently got back from the union, so apologies if this doesn't really make sense, but talking about it might help :)


And please TRY to avoid "TTIUWP" and "Hit it hard" comments etc. They really don't help.
 
Insanity said:
Age isnt an issue, anybody that claims that it is, is just looking for an excuse.


See I would take the same opinion, as I have a large number of friends older than me. It's just sometimes weird them being in last year at uni and me being in my first!
 
Vixen said:
I don't really think male/female friendships like you've described ever last. The situation normally comes about because there's a spark, and it will either end up with a more normal friendship, or something more.

I had a friend like that once, and one night I got stupidly drunk and kissed him. It really was just a natural progression from the amount of time we spent together and lots of physical contact (lying in his arms watching movies etc). After some intial drunken "omg what did I just do", in front of him, we spoke about it and ended up together for 3 years. Not the happiest 3 years of my life, but that was never really related to how we got together ;).


This post confused me :(

Does that post = thumbs up or thuimbs down and why? :p
 
Ach well, looks like I'm going for it.


I'm off to the pub with a few friends including her tomorrow (6 nations!), will probably chat to her then :)


And to all those wondering "what the problem is" etc, when you're 18, first year of uni, unable to work out how you've pulled more than one third year since getting here, then genuinely liking someone (instead of just "she's a bit of alright" etc) who is 21 and almost 22 feels is a situation I've not been in before :eek: (All my previous girlfriends were younger than me)

Meh, hope it goes well :)
 
Too much organising (we organised the whole six nations viewing setup practically) earlier meant I didn't get to chat with her :(

However am off to the local rockbar tonight with her, and will most definately be talking about things then :)

So yeah... bye guys :)
 
Well... things didn't go badly. We're going out for an actual date sometime during the week. So things should go good :)

Zefan said:
Is she the one that sang Grease with you?


Nah, already been with her before, didn't really work.

However she WAS the one dancing with the tall guy in the glasses in Grease :)
 
Chimpdaddy said:
Well done mate. I'm happy for you.

During High School, I was a very shy guy. I would never take chances with any girl I fancied. But my old man gave me some advice that I would never forget.

"In 5, 10 or even 20 years, when you look back, you'll regret the things you haven't done, more than the things you have."

Will never forget that. Thanks to his advice, I am currently in a strong relationship for the past 6 months. :)


That's surprisingly good advice :)
 
Holy thread revival batman! :eek:


Well, I thought I'd let you know, I went out with her tonight and it was a disaster! To cut a long story short, she ended up back at hers with another guy, and I ended up at one of her mate's houses with her mate. Just got back in, and apart from the fact the "date" went crap, I actually had a really good time. Maybe just the booze, but I doubt it. Maybe we just didn't 'click' out tonight. Well, I don't know what's happening with her, but I'm now meeting her friend tomorrow for lunch, and then a film in the evening.


A rather bizarre turn of events... :o
 
helpimcrap said:
what i want to know is... 2 people went on the date.... and they both ended up going off with other people!? how?? pleasseeee tell lol. :)


Hmmm... I'm kind of hungover... and as soon as I remember I'll be sure to let you know ;)


Thing is we went out 'together' (me and the original girl), but were with a large group of people as it was someone's birthday. Then something or other, and all I remember after about the 12th drink (buy 1 get 2 free! It's ASKING for trouble! :o) is from the point of being sat on the bus. With different people.

:( :confused:
 
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