well, this is it then :(
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Soldato
Sorry to hear all this. I also had a close family member die of cancer some years back. Taught me that nothing is fair in this world. Live for today as you really have no idea what is around the corner.
The word cancer scares the hell out of me. It really does.
Im sorry for what you are going through and what you will go through in the future.
Nothing like this is ever easy at all.
May she R.I.P and Im sure she will look in on you from time to time. Thats what I believe when my mother passed away. Never a day goes forward without thinking about her.
Just remember the good times you had with her, she will always be with you.
regards
Keith
The word cancer scares the hell out of me. It really does.
Im sorry for what you are going through and what you will go through in the future.
Nothing like this is ever easy at all.
May she R.I.P and Im sure she will look in on you from time to time. Thats what I believe when my mother passed away. Never a day goes forward without thinking about her.
Just remember the good times you had with her, she will always be with you.
regards
Keith
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James, I'm really very very sorry to hear that mate 
I lost my uncle a couple of days ago and that's left me feeling hollow, but to lose a mum (or dad) would bring my whole world crashing down.
Take care mate, be strong and remember that we're all here to help if you ever need us.
From one stranger to another,
Al
I lost my uncle a couple of days ago and that's left me feeling hollow, but to lose a mum (or dad) would bring my whole world crashing down.
Take care mate, be strong and remember that we're all here to help if you ever need us.
From one stranger to another,
Al
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Oh man, sorry
She is at rest now.
She is at rest now.
Associate
Sorry to hear that. Thoughts to yourself and family.
Soldato
Sorry for your loss.
Soldato
Really sorry to hear about your mum.
I can't begin to guess how it's made you feel, but all I can do is offer my condolences and echo what others have said, that you can always find somebody to talk to on here.
Just be happy that she's watching down on you now, in no pain, as your guardian angel - probably with a great big G&T!
I can't begin to guess how it's made you feel, but all I can do is offer my condolences and echo what others have said, that you can always find somebody to talk to on here.
Just be happy that she's watching down on you now, in no pain, as your guardian angel - probably with a great big G&T!
Associate
So sorry to hear the news.
R.I.P
R.I.P
Caporegime
Sorry to hear that mate.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
R.I.P
My thoughts are with you and your family.
R.I.P
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Soldato
really sorry about your loss James, my thoughts are with you ive been through exactly the same with my grandad, we can only hope that one day a cure can be found for this terrible disease. R.I.P.
hey. im not here to steal your ''thunder'' or anythin, however i just thought ide share something...
im march this year, my mum died of cancer, leavin my dad, her 15yr old daughter, her 17yr old (me), and the rest of our family.
im not going to lie and say its easy. its not. mum had fought cancer for a year, and was deemed clear in january. and again in february. then she was gone by 28th march. the cancer had got into her spinal cord, leaving her with heavy headaches and back ache. of which the doctor twice claimed was 'nothing to worry about', despite her history with cancer. it all started at the beginning of the week, and was over by the end of it. quickly... which was better, if you can say its 'better' for something like that to happen.
i wasnt bitter, i didnt blame the doctor, or anyone else, and even if it may feel like you want to, there is no one to blame. like me, you may feel angry, confused, frustrated... but whatever you do, FEEL it, dont just sit there and grit your teeth, trying to bare it.
i do hope you have enjoyed time with your mum... i hope you and your family will be ok. youll go through the weirdest emotions, ones you wouldnt expect- in ways i still cant accept it. i still expect mum to come through the door one day and sit down whilst i yell at her for being so long without telling me where she was
thoughts to you and your family, and your mother- everyone here will be here to support you.
x gem x
im march this year, my mum died of cancer, leavin my dad, her 15yr old daughter, her 17yr old (me), and the rest of our family.
im not going to lie and say its easy. its not. mum had fought cancer for a year, and was deemed clear in january. and again in february. then she was gone by 28th march. the cancer had got into her spinal cord, leaving her with heavy headaches and back ache. of which the doctor twice claimed was 'nothing to worry about', despite her history with cancer. it all started at the beginning of the week, and was over by the end of it. quickly... which was better, if you can say its 'better' for something like that to happen.
i wasnt bitter, i didnt blame the doctor, or anyone else, and even if it may feel like you want to, there is no one to blame. like me, you may feel angry, confused, frustrated... but whatever you do, FEEL it, dont just sit there and grit your teeth, trying to bare it.
i do hope you have enjoyed time with your mum... i hope you and your family will be ok. youll go through the weirdest emotions, ones you wouldnt expect- in ways i still cant accept it. i still expect mum to come through the door one day and sit down whilst i yell at her for being so long without telling me where she was
thoughts to you and your family, and your mother- everyone here will be here to support you.
x gem x