Man of Honour
For context this is not for me - however, I am related to this person and want to try and offer impartial advice as possible.
I've told them that they were hired because they're clearly capable and suitable for the role - so to go in with that confidence. Clearly there's always a bit of imposter syndrome when you achieve your first senior role, or exec position. At least throughout my career during every promotion I've felt that way.
I've told them the following:
However this feels fairly generic, common sense to me and I didn't really what else to offer as it's been a while since I've been in that "new" role. For those of you that are execs (or even those that aren't) do you have any other words of wisdom? This person is quite young (39) so this is quite a significant role, but I don't want them to go in half cocked, or feel overwhelmed.
I've already put them in touch with my mentor, as I want them to have unbiased support - but I know there's a lot of highly experienced people here who have been through it.
I've told them that they were hired because they're clearly capable and suitable for the role - so to go in with that confidence. Clearly there's always a bit of imposter syndrome when you achieve your first senior role, or exec position. At least throughout my career during every promotion I've felt that way.
I've told them the following:
- managing your relationships are the most important thing
- staff (direct reports and non reports)
- peers
- external clients
- internal stakeholders
- Probably have to be less "close" to individuals and add larger boundaries than previous roles, at least until they establish themselves. I say this because I don't want them to fall down the route of favouritism.
- Be accessible
- Be accountable
- Become absolutely conversant on their remit, roles and responsibilities and their deliverables.
- don't BS and pretend you know, be sure of what you know and if you don't know something make sure that you can support the questions
- Spend the first few months fact finding, and painting the landscape in which you operate and how your peers operate and how you interface with them
- Learn about the your peers on the board but also what their deliverables are, and how you can collaborate to ensure effective delivery of your targets / goals.
- Don't forget to reflect, and even ask for feedback - but make sure you don't ask for validation, you've got the job, showcase what you're delivering and against what targets.
- Qualify and quantify your work
- Make sure your objectives are aligned with your team's objectives - means you're all pulling in the same direction
However this feels fairly generic, common sense to me and I didn't really what else to offer as it's been a while since I've been in that "new" role. For those of you that are execs (or even those that aren't) do you have any other words of wisdom? This person is quite young (39) so this is quite a significant role, but I don't want them to go in half cocked, or feel overwhelmed.
I've already put them in touch with my mentor, as I want them to have unbiased support - but I know there's a lot of highly experienced people here who have been through it.