what do I do ??

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knowlesy

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ok so I'm not complaining here or moping my life away, I just need genuine suggestions to what do I do.....

Ok so my gf ended it last week, but here's the kicker we were meant to have a 2 night luxury stay at a hotel in London this weekend. Which I got through a deal....

Now I'm in a few minds on what to do, I must admit I'm pretty gutted about it as I had a few high hopes for the relationship but, what do I do about this hotel... I cant get a refund due to the deal policy and sadly none of my mates can go, due to money, an operation and other responsibility's which I all know about and not too fussed...

So do I go by myself down there or just stay at my house and go out with my flat mates ?? I'm kind of partial to staying with my flat mates and having a good night out, but I there's a chance shell be out too....

Or do I go down to London and meet with a few people I know down there.... but chances are theyll already be busy as I haven't asked.


So what do I do...
 
hah wouldnt even know where to go by myself on a night out, contemplated selling tbh.... but nope no one has offered like my parents etc and the bunch of lasses I know are of the vegas this week haha and the others already off with there boyfriends lol
 
graemer said:
controversial post this but it seems you have 3 options

1) Go yourself and have a fantastic time whatever happens.
2) Dont go and put it behind you
3) the controversial one if you ended on good terms give it to her if you dont want to go but make it clear that it isnot an attempt to get her back (although it may well be).

If it were me no matter how difficult the decision if I didnt want to go I would consider option 3. (easy to say that I know as I am not in the situation but I would like to think I was able to consider this).
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yeah agreed, but I doubt shed go, I asked her about what were doing bout it and she said its ok if i take a mate, which was her first reply, so I dont think shes even fussed
 
I dont know any of single female, that I'm attracted to or like in anyway haha, and any randomer I'd expect would be weird to be frank...sadly! and my parents are at my grans all weekend as there going down before her birthday. Otherwise me and my dad would have gone down.
 
4Play said:
Legendary quote haha :)

Seriously though without been nosey here why did it end ? Was it something serious or trivial ? If it was something which can be easily mended maybe you could use that weekend as an attempt to get back on track ? That would be my first option.

Second id try to sell the tickets and have a good time with your lad mates, you need mates at a time like this.

Thirdly go down there and get completly anhilated beyond all reason. :)
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It ended due to a few too many arguments over exam time and when that was over she was always in an off mood and well I wasnt the best to help her out over exam time etc... but it was too much for her she didnt want it to go too far and end up killing each other haha... but I did ask her to go and see what happens and she said no, but no one I think has been serious about an offer ?? :)
 
haha well guys im very tempted to go down by myself, the getlaid sites you seem to have to pay so maybe I'll sack that idea as Id feel like id of paid for sex in a way. The guys at work suggested i post it on facebook, "any women fancy comming to london" haha Id doubt no one would anyways.... but I'm tempted to go down and have a good time Ive taken monday of work. But then I still could go on a night out with mates up here and pull hmmm

oh and Bennie-Mac my mates had a similar idea I loll'd at when I read your post! :D pure genius!!
 
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