What does this mean?

lemonkettaz · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:21

hmmm... this sounds stupid but..

a girl i like is going out tonight, we have been out on several occasions now with loads of people from work... we also got off a few times

however there is only her + her sister (and her sisters boyfriend sorta) and some of her mates going out. no one from work

she sent me a msg earlier saying she will let me know who is going out... etc etc

anyways i got a msg about an hour ago saying

"tonight me n me sister are out, no one from work is going out n some of me old friends, so dont know if you stil fancy it ? lol"

LOL. is this a time to say "sure im still up for it, ill meet u ....."

or... "ok no probs, maybe ill just give it a miss"

??

i mean i dont want to go and be like out the way, but i dont want to not go and be like "just because no one you knew was out"...

ack

Scott Salisbury · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:22

Bit of a no brainer there mate.

Erm.. go for it? What you got to lose? :confused:

Otacon · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:22

Just go man. Grow a pair and go. Because you're probably in there.

lemonkettaz · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:23

it just seemed like a hint that ill be in the corner by myself...?

fatmas · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:23

Maybe she is trying to avoid you... Girls eh... Who understands them? (No sexism intended)
Hmm give it a miss tonight and ask her about it tomorrow?

lemonkettaz · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:23

fatmas said:
Maybe she is trying to avoid you... Girls eh... Who understands them? (No sexism intended)
Hmm give it a miss tonight and ask her about it tomorrow?

oh great..

i was convinced to go until i read this

Otacon · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:24

lemonkettaz said:
it just seemed like a hint that ill be in the corner by myself...?

Why on earth would she bother asking you out if that were the case?

You're thinking about this too much.

Zip · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:24

Just go already.

Hes single anyway IIRC

meggy-vengeance · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:24

Just go out?
You can always stand/sit in silence and nod your head

lemonkettaz · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:25

Otacon said:
Why on earth would she bother asking you out if that were the case?

You're thinking about this too much.

no one asks anyone to go out... we all just seem to go out...

meggy-vengeance · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:25

lemonkettaz said:
oh great..

i was convinced to go until i read this

Don't listen to Fatmas, he doesn't know what hes talking about.

RandomTom · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:25

Short Answer: Go.

Long Answer: Goooooooooooooooo.

lemonkettaz · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:27

i replied before saying i might do...

no reply back (she is at work til 9 anyways)

should i just send a msg saying "**** it, i may as well... what time n where?"

man i dont believe this... i was ok a few weeks ago.. not caring.... now i am concerned.

this is bad news

RandomTom · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:28

language sir! :eek:

edit: better, just be polite more like "yeh why not, only if you show me a good time" or something like that.

Otacon · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:28

I'm ->this<- close to locking this and telling you to get going. So why dont you just get going so you have somewhere to post back on your return?

Zip · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:28

Sweary

You dont need swearing in the msg to impress her you know

lemonkettaz · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:28

i know

oppsie

i changed it. im all confused.. its understandable

Zefan · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:29

Ah now that's a dilemma. Face a night of boredom on your own and seem like a wussy or go out and seem like the man you (Presumably) are... which to choose.

lemonkettaz · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:29

Otacon said:
I'm ->this<- close to locking this and telling you to get going. So why dont you just get going so you have somewhere to post back on your return?

im convinced...

ill tell the score laters...

:rolleyes:

Otacon · 4 Aug 2006 at 20:29

Zefan said:
Ah now that's a dilemma. Face a night of boredom on your own and seem like a wussy or go out and seem like the man you (Presumably) are... which to choose.

Dirty dancing on dvd and some ice cream?