What to do, REALLY bad luck.

Dicehunter

Dicehunter

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Have you ever had one of those runs of bad luck that just doesnt seem to stop, well i need advice for what to do please OcUK community, about 2 months ago my girlfriend broke up (after 6 years) with me over the phone (yeah i know really low eh) and she said it was over me being clingy and jealous all the time, well wouldnt you be jealous if your girlfriend put her friends first all the time and came back late at night smelling of 'man', anyway i found out she was cheating on me with someone who lives in a place called prenton and she made this crap up about me being clingy and all that to get out of the relationship (again, real low eh) now theres the part about her cheating on me which i think is the lowest thing anyone can do, second i have no friends what so ever as they either dont want to know as i made too much time for my girlfriend at the time or they moved away, third, i dont have a job as my last one closed down, i use to work in a threshers off license, it closed due to the place being broken in to at 4 in the morning, anyway theres my run of bad luck for the last year, just had to get it off my mind and share it, so if anyone has got any wise words they would like to share id be most greatful.
 
get a job at a place where you can exercise your interests () ect., go to college and get some qualifications (if you haven't already) make new friends at college/job and maybe a new girlfriend
 
Dicehunter said:
Have you ever had one of those runs of bad luck that just doesnt seem to stop, well i need advice for what to do please OcUK community, about 2 months ago my girlfriend broke up (after 6 years) with me over the phone (yeah i know really low eh) and she said it was over me being clingy and jealous all the time, well wouldnt you be jealous if your girlfriend put her friends first all the time and came back late at night smelling of 'man', anyway i found out she was cheating on me with someone who lives in a place called prenton and she made this crap up about me being clingy and all that to get out of the relationship (again, real low eh) now theres the part about her cheating on me which i think is the lowest thing anyone can do, second i have no friends what so ever as they either dont want to know as i made too much time for my girlfriend at the time or they moved away, third, i dont have a job as my last one closed down, i use to work in a threshers off license, it closed due to the place being broken in to at 4 in the morning, anyway theres my run of bad luck for the last year, just had to get it off my mind and share it, so if anyone has got any wise words they would like to share id be most greatful.
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Get over her and learn what this is: '.'
 
Get a job ... get more money ... get to do more things you'd like to be doing ... meet new people who like things you do and make some friends ... etc

A positive mental attitude goes a long way. If you can't control something, there's little point in worrying about it, you'll only stress yourself out.
 
Doesn't sound all that bad to be honest. These things happen, got to just get on with it and make good of what you have. :)

It'll get better once you stop moping around and sort yourself out. I recently had my girlfriend leave me, my dog die and I'm doing badly at uni, but I'm not letting any of that get me down.
I just look on the upside of it all, I'm now free and single, I don't have to worry about my dog getting more ill and suffering lots and I'm about to take a year off from uni (placement year) which should revitalise me for my final year so I'll come back enthusiastically and do well. :)

As Cew says, look around for a new job in your line of interest, and if you don't have any qualifications, see about getting some. In both places work and study you'll meet loads of new people and make loads of new friends. :)

InvG
 
Dicehunter said:
i have 3 interviews in 2 weeks, i just need to know how other men have dealt with this thats all really
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Well as I say, I'm not letting it get me down and getting on with my life. :)

Last time I let a girl I was really into get to me after a break up I messed loads of stuff up and missed lots of opportunities I should have taken, so this time I'm not letting myself get messed up about it. And I'm so much happier for it. :)

InvG
 
InvG You talking about the one you posted in the "post your gf thread?"

To the op, sort out your cv and go looking for a new job. Its her loss not yours and I'd go on to look at further qualifications in order to gain a better job.

Aero
 
1) Forget about that sorry excuse for a woman (though by the sounds of it 'girl' is probably a better description) - whatever you 'feel' it's only you that's feeling it; she probably couldn't care less and has most likely forgotten you already.

2) There's loads of stuff you can do in the world, forget your self doubt and go and find what makes you happy, sooner rather than later.
 
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