What would you do if...

burtie · 24 Oct 2009 at 19:31

Just shag no harm done.

jp_bl_68 · 24 Oct 2009 at 19:33

malfunkshun said:
I'd punch her in the......oh! wait!
Seriously, I'd be gone, at the very least due to the fact that it lied to me for the entire duration of the relationship.

You've never lied to a loved one?

Muban · 24 Oct 2009 at 19:35

You'd have to seriously consider if your relationship was even what you thought it was. Having been lied to about something so major and having lost the trust could you even get it back? What about being able to have children?

Though of course I would know before it got that far down the line.

jp_bl_68 · 24 Oct 2009 at 19:39

Muban said:
Though of course I would know before it got that far down the line.

How, exactly?

Muban · 24 Oct 2009 at 19:42

jp_bl_68 said:
How, exactly?

Perhaps I should have mentioned I am female. Without going into too much detail on a family forum there are certain things that (to my knowledge) a post op female to male person can not do.

malfunkshun · 24 Oct 2009 at 19:47

jp_bl_68 said:
You've never lied to a loved one?

Sure, but I haven't based an entire relationship on lies. Typically my lies are along the lines of 'I've only had a couple' 'you're **** doesn't look big in that' etc etc.

johnny6 · 24 Oct 2009 at 19:49

jp_bl_68 · 24 Oct 2009 at 19:52

Muban said:
Perhaps I should have mentioned I am female. Without going into too much detail on a family forum there are certain things that (to my knowledge) a post op female to male person can not do.

Good point.

manveruppd · 24 Oct 2009 at 20:10

jp_bl_68 said:
A few people have said that. Why should you know? Obviously if she looks and sounds like a bloke in a dress then alarm bells should start ringing. But if she looks, sounds and acts like a woman, in all respects, then how could you know?

So if it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck....

...it is, in this particular case, clearly a mutant chicken.

malfunkshun said:
I'd punch her in the......oh! wait!

Exactly!

genan · 24 Oct 2009 at 21:29

jp_bl_68 · 24 Oct 2009 at 21:31

Is that a transsexual?

Nix · 24 Oct 2009 at 21:35

I'm so confused... I feel like the kids in Look Who's Talking when they're learning about boys/girls.

*sobs in corner*

mejinks · 24 Oct 2009 at 22:04

Depends if they are good at other things

ElvisFan · 24 Oct 2009 at 23:33

If it was fit and had the right holes I'd be ecstatic as it would mean no damned sprogs.

meghatronic · 24 Oct 2009 at 23:36

ElvisFan said:
If it was fit and had the right holes I'd be ecstatic as it would mean no damned sprogs.

But that's gay....!

steve-h · 24 Oct 2009 at 23:50

seek said:
Smash his pasty.

hahaha

jp_bl_68 said:
Do it too hard and that inny might revert to an outy

edit... oh and i'd stay with ... her

jp_bl_68 · 24 Oct 2009 at 23:52

That cat doesn't look anywhere near shocked enough to see a DIY sex change in reverse. For one, his eyes' aren't bleeding.

Pho · 24 Oct 2009 at 23:57

ci_newman said:
For me, the issue is that there wouldn't be any chance of starting a biological family with said person. Certainly not by natual means anyway. The lack of trust would be an issue too.

What if you were going out with a man who used to be a a woman? Everyone is assuming it's the other way around!

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big_white_dog84 · 24 Oct 2009 at 23:59

Definitely go on Jeremy Kyle

Calabi · 25 Oct 2009 at 00:27

If its a man turned to a women, the way women move, what they do and talk is so different from men, unless you want to be fooled you would know.