For the record, how anyone could hold religious beliefs over the happiness of themselves and someone they love is absolutely beyond my comprehension....
ok two choices,
A)you can be miserable and follow my rules for a week, then the rest of your life i will make sure you get everything you could ever want.
B)you can be happy and defy me for a week, and i will personally make sure the rest of your life is full of pain and suffering.
This is essentially the basis of the Abrahamic religions.