What would you do?

The OP is a girl? <plays EastEnders overly dramatic ending tune>

Did'nt see that coming. Regardless of sex, or sexulity. Friendship is a partnership and although sometimes friends will lean on each other more during certain periods in thier lives it should all balance out. My best advice is to distance yourself from her in the short term, see if she notices, if she really is your friend she should take notice and ask why, if she isnt she is using you as an emotional crutch.
 
MTFU

Grow some large brass balls

Tell her to get bent

YOu are letting her walk all over you dude, get some fricking pride and then go around her house and pound her mothers pasty in front of her.......

profit...
 
At the end of the day, as a friend you should not have to put up this kind of rubbish.

If a friendship is bringing this much trouble & annoyance then it's not worth maintaining, I have only a few friends but none of them are annoying/moody dicks - because I ditched people who were drama queens, two faced, ******* drunks or ego-centrical morons.

If the net loss of the friendship is higher than the gain, it's time to re-evaluate your stance.
 
UncleRuckus said:
Do you think if you stop wearing lipstick she will stop treating you like a bitch?
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Do go away, there's a good chap.


For those saying grow a pair or man up, surely trying to be chivalrous is more manly than telling telling her to **** off in the first place?

But I digress... I've just got off the phone with her. She has apologised profusely; being the gentleman I have accepted her apology. However, I have given her a week to buck her ideas up, stop dicking around and be a better person. We are both out Friday with a group of friends, and, as the nastier side of her personality comes out while drunk, I shall be able to tell if what I have said has made any impact. She sounded extremely shocked at the time, and as she is a terrible liar, even over the phone, I could tell that se had taken it as quite a large body blow.

I know a lot of you are going to disagree with what I've done, but if she ever acts like it again, I have promised (and got quite a few of her close friends to go along with this) to break off any contact. This was the best compromise situation to try and lessen the negative effects to me and my friends, not her. This, as I see it, is the most gentlemanly thing to do, and also uses the most common sense. If you do disagree, I would like to hear your opinions why :)
 
I think we've reached a point and I just wish you good luck for when you speak. Have some war music :D


Edit: Sounds like it went ok. Just, if it comes to it, be ready!
 
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KaHn said:
Well your first post led me (and others) to believe that you have feelings for her of that nature, regardless if you are "sort of seeing someone", but if you just want a totally platonic relationship and shes still being a tard them just get rid, don't even give her the satisfaction of a confrotation, just phone off, ignore, be happy.

KaHn
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This

We're guys, we can't be doing with moaning females, we have no feelings so it doesn't work
 
Shayper said:
Do go away, there's a good chap.


For those saying grow a pair or man up, surely trying to be chivalrous is more manly than telling telling her to **** off in the first place?

But I digress... I've just got off the phone with her. She has apologised profusely; being the gentleman I have accepted her apology. However, I have given her a week to buck her ideas up, stop dicking around and be a better person. We are both out Friday with a group of friends, and, as the nastier side of her personality comes out while drunk, I shall be able to tell if what I have said has made any impact. She sounded extremely shocked at the time, and as she is a terrible liar, even over the phone, I could tell that se had taken it as quite a large body blow.

I know a lot of you are going to disagree with what I've done, but if she ever acts like it again, I have promised (and got quite a few of her close friends to go along with this) to break off any contact. This was the best compromise situation to try and lessen the negative effects to me and my friends, not her. This, as I see it, is the most gentlemanly thing to do, and also uses the most common sense. If you do disagree, I would like to hear your opinions why :)
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Your life is not hollyoaks.
 
Id say that you do still have feelings for her as her "getting" with guys in front of your bothers you.

If it didn't bother you, there wouldn't be an issue.

Also you said "she knows I like her, and holds it over me"
 
Deluxe1 said:
She's walking all over you.
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Did you actually read the entirety of that post?

Skidder said:
Your life is not hollyoaks.
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Did I say, imply or otherwise intimate that it was? This thread is no different to any other relationship thread, apart from the fact that it's to do with a friend rather than an other half.

Speaking of which, off to see the sort of other half now ;)
 
Davepen said:
Id say that you do still have feelings for her as her "getting" with guys in front of your bothers you.

If it didn't bother you, there wouldn't be an issue.

Also you said "she knows I like her, and holds it over me"
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Not really, it's bad manners full stop to display such behaviour so provokingly. I don't want to see girl friends get off with guys, not because I want to shag them, but it's not something I want to see!
 
Pate said:
Not really, it's bad manners full stop to display such behaviour so provokingly. I don't want to see girl friends get off with guys, not because I want to shag them, but it's not something I want to see!
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This. If I want to see girls acting sluttishly, I will quite happily go to a strip club ;)
 
Shayper said:
Did I say, imply or otherwise intimate that it was? This thread is no different to any other relationship thread, apart from the fact that it's to do with a friend rather than an other half.
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It was my comment, based on my perception. Your problem and relationship are shallow, sub-neighbours, hollyoaks stuff.
 
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Skidder said:
It was my comment, based on my perception. Your problem and relationship is shallow, sub-neighbours, hollyoaks stuff.
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You sound like a bundle of laughs. I posted for advice on a situation, which I have gratefully received, and it doesn't help matters in any way posting pointless and negative comments with no other purpose but to condescend and seemingly troll.
 
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