try noiseblocker fans, Ive got an 80mm and its very quiet. Ambers are quiet but the one that came with my CPU cooler was quite noisy at 2000 RPM and clearly audible outside the case, the retail amber fans will be quieter than that one though as they're rated speed is 1500rpm. your better off getting a higher rpm fan and volt modding it to suite, then you can get a good balance between performance and quiet, if you get an amber rated at 1500rpm @12v you have no control. The vantec fan gaskets are useless but the Acusti fan gaskets are good, they're 2.5mm thick as appose to 1mm vantecs, plus the rubber is a lot softer.
Mark