Which P95 version for 3950x and what else for ultimate stress testing ?

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As the title which is the best P95 version for 3950x and which settings for stressing ?

Also what's the general consensus these days for the (subjectively) best marathon for stressing for Ryzen ?

Currently I'm using R20, RealBench, IBT, Aida64, geekbench + P95 is there anything else I'm missing or are these good enough ?

 

[Minusorange]

But what settings ? I realised I'd been using an outdated P95 (26.6) so it's kind of made me restart my stress testing, on old AVX1 prime I could run at 1.225v and hit 90 degrees on x62 kraken, new prime with avx2 1.225 hits thermal limits. Even as low as 1.18v it's hovering around 93 but Cinebench R20 is only 69 degrees (was previously around 75 @1.225v) so I'm left wondering am I hitting the chip too hard with Prime (custom 128k-128k inplace 5 minutes, got this from watching buildzoid) in which case what are realistic settings to find a suitable voltage v temp (should I disabled AVX2, although this is counter productive as it would mean I'm not AVX2 stable).... or should I try reseat my kraken and see if that does anything, although I don't think it will as if it was poorly seated I'd be seeing terrible temps in CB too and even Realbench for 8 hours stress was only around 80 degrees @ 1.225v?

 

[Minusorange]

https://www.reddit.com/r/overclocking/comments/a814aj/psa_dont_use_prime95_until_youve_read_this/

So reading this was interesting, seems to be logical that P95 is the ultimate stress but only if you manage to configure the settings correctly per chipset ie there's no universal settings for everything as what it does, depends on your cache and thread count. The bigger takeaway is that you should OC memory first because it can invalidate your CPU OC

Any thoughts on this ?