Who plays it cool after a date?

"Thanks for the night out - it was fun :) Speak soon, Night night x"


See if she texts back - play it from there! If she likes you will text you back!
 
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Vixen said:
Got it in one. Games are just stupid.
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silly question, are you female by any chance?

most females think that games are stupid, but when you actually dont play them, there not intrested, women just love to be ***** about unfortunally
 
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Calibrate how much attention you can give her without coming off needy, it's different for every girl. For some girls you can talk to them all day everyday and they won't think your needy but for others if you text much a lot/ meet them a lot (with you arranging it) it can come off as such.

The way to behave is to be decisive, confident and an alpha-male. Also never ask her permission. Girls respect authority and a guy who doesn't come off as needy.

For the subsequent date, during the date assess whether it's possible to take her back to yours or hers for sex (again calibration). If you think shes into you enough to do it then just do it. If you fact last minute resistance at the door just say something like "I can only stay a minute, lets have a cup of tea". That was a lame example but I'm sure you can think of a better one. I sexed my last girl on 2nd date :p Though I still consider that to be amateurish I aim to sex her the night I pull her in the club now :o
 
Zefan said:
I thought the idea of a date is to work out if you wanna bum someone (Putting it bluntly), surely if you didn't work that out then it's a failed date :confused:
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Such a smooth,suave gentleman :p
 
If it feels right to say 'hey great night tonight, what next? look forward to it' etc etc then go for it. If ya don't and it falls through you will regret if you do and it falls through at least ya give it your best shot.
 
seven317 said:
Such a smooth,suave gentleman :p
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You knows it ;)

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SeanyK said:
Whats the general signs its gone well then, no stating the obvious like "they would say so, or theyd kiss you"
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Firstly, ignore anybody here who says you should or you shouldnt; There are no rules. There is absoultely nothing wrong with a cheeky little text after a date to say you had a good time.

Usually you can just tell how well a date goes. How flirty was she? Did she respond to your moves? Did she laugh at your jokes? Did she seem interested to do it again some time? If you came away from it thinking 'wow that was pretty cool' chance are she will feel exactly the same.
 
SeanyK said:
Hey folks...

So you've just taken a girl out for a drink, dropped her home...


Do you text her?

Wait for a text from her?


How many of you make the first move?

Oh...And what do you say!
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Play it cool and wait a day or two. She'll text you first, and evoila, you're in.
 
you have to play it cool, make sure you don't let her take control, if you want to call her then do it in a day or two but don't ASK if she wants to go on a date, tell her you're probably going out on xxxxx but don't tell her shes invited, when xxxx comes around give her a call and tell her you're going out and that she could come along.
 
VeNT said:
you have to play it cool, make sure you don't let her take control, if you want to call her then do it in a day or two but don't ASK if she wants to go on a date, tell her you're probably going out on xxxxx but don't tell her shes invited, when xxxx comes around give her a call and tell her you're going out and that she could come along.
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lol - bad move.

"I'm going out tnite with a few mates, come along so you can watch us stick cocktail sticks in our head and arm wrestle eachother."
 
MrSix said:
lol - bad move.

"I'm going out tnite with a few mates, come along so you can watch us stick cocktail sticks in our head and arm wrestle eachother."
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with fire

hehe
 
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