I work in a restaurant in the kitchen. I kinda stumbled into it by accident as I quit my previous job and needed a temporary interim job for 6 months while I was looking. That was 15 years ago...DoH!
I read your post with great interest. I can't speak for anyone else but whether I had a 10 year old setup or AMD/Nvidia latest and greatest I just love talking shop. And I would treat any person who shared the same passion and interest as me whether they had a £500 or a £5000 setup with the same decorum of respect.
If you know the amount of people who own stuff like the 4090 and 9800x3d is marginal in the whole scope of pc gaming/ownership what they own or do not own is not really your concern or what they say just enjoy your setup for what it is.
And if you play league of legends you will notice that I suck regardless of what setup I own