Had my ex-girlfriend (we have been on and off since new year) finally tell me why she doesn't want to be in a relationship. She is "protecting herself from getting hurt" by never ever going into a relationship with anyone, ever. She reckons the chance that she MIGHT get hurt isn't worth the risk. Oh sure, that makes sense
. I asked her if she was going to now start living in a bubble so that nobody can ever touch her or her breathe in all the dirty air and make her ill etc? I mean, the world could end tommorrow, what's she gonna do about it? It MIGHT happen afterall
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It's really peeved me off more than anything, it's just so frustrating. She still has feelings for me, she's told me that numerous times, but she literally said "I am going to ignore my feelings". ARGH!
. The thing is, she is so attatched to this idea of hers that any reasonable ideas from me she instantly dismisses without even giving them any thought. I can see her start to think about it, then she just says something like "well it's tough this is how I feel and you're not changing my mind" and throws all her toys out of the pram (oh wait, that was a little 3 year old I saw in the street) because deep down she knows I'm right.
Stupid women. I hate them all right now
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