Why cant i get a girlfriend?

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On your planet, maybe.

After 3 years of looking you haven't found even one suitable match? If you've been fishing in a river for 3 years and have only caught boots, would you carry on fishing there, or try somewhere else?
 
perhaps you are going to the wrong places to find the decent girls. It may sound wierd but probably the best places to 'pick up chicks' it at the library (some stunning brainy boffs out there), coffee shops that have a bookstore atached (the possibilities are endless here) or the pet isle at your supermarket (stunning down to earth girls)

or just go with the flow and whatever happens, happens
 
Dingleberry88 said:
I feel exactly the same. Why is it so hard to just find a nice girl who's interested in more than going out and getting off her face?




...Wanna bum?
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Mate... you seem to have the same understanding. I dated this absolute stunner... I couldnt believe how beautiful she was.... however... getting to know her...

She was bragging how much she drinks etc. she used to go out Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday... typical college beauty therapist and shes as thick as a plank!

We just didnt hit it. I go clubbing like every 4 months she goes 4 times a week lol. Her mummy n daddy are dead rich ... shes from a really nice area! and... all her friends are stunning as i used to go out with one but they just love getting drunk!
 
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Asking a girl for a number straight away after saying "hi, how you doing?" :eek:
Not surprised they take a step back. :p

What social activities do you do that give you the chance to meet women? (If you're dead set against meeting women in clubs/pubs/bars - which is a shame because they are great ways to meet new people, and it's a shame you've tarred all women that go clubbing with the same brush... but whatever)
 
Vasquez said:
yes,

I think your trying to hard tbh just relax and be natural. Theres nothing more offputting than someone trying to hard, even if they are really good looking.
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so if i was in a shop and this girl caught my eye and she smiles at me and i smile back and say hiya... you ok? What do you say from there? Make small talk or go in for the kill? Can you imagine how embarrassing it would be though if you said fancy going for lunch sometime / for a drink? and she says "NO, Sorry"
 
daz said:
Asking a girl for a number straight away after saying "hi, how you doing?" :eek:
Not surprised they take a step back. :p

What social activities do you do that give you the chance to meet women? (If you're dead set against meeting women in clubs/pubs/bars - which is a shame because they are great ways to meet new people, and it's a shame you've tarred all women that go clubbing with the same brush... but whatever)
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I dont say to girls.... hey how you doing whats your number lol?! :confused:
 
Shep_Cobain said:
so if i was in a shop and this girl caught my eye and she smiles at me and i smile back and say hiya... you ok? What do you say from there? Make small talk or go in for the kill? Can you imagine how embarrassing it would be though if you said fancy going for lunch sometime / for a drink? and she says "NO, Sorry"
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A girl smiling back at you does not mean she wants to take a short cut to sausagetown.
 
Lysander said:
A girl smiling back at you does not mean she wants to take a short cut to sausagetown.
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so what are the signs then? maybe im going about this the whole wrong way? Oh and just coz a girl smiles i dont expect sex lol... but if shes staring and smiles at me... then theres obviously a small attraction there first of all. If a girl just looks at you and then looks away then fair doos but if they stare and then look again and smile... she obvious likes my arse!
 
Shep_Cobain said:
so if i was in a shop and this girl caught my eye and she smiles at me and i smile back and say hiya... you ok? What do you say from there? Make small talk or go in for the kill? Can you imagine how embarrassing it would be though if you said fancy going for lunch sometime / for a drink? and she says "NO, Sorry"
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well not straight away, you can always leave it a bit and then go back and say "I was wondering .... "

smiling at them then saying "hello how are you do you want to go out sometime" probably won't get you to far.
 
Lysander said:
Because you're actually Jon Arbuckle.
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ROFL

Seriously though, maybe Blackpool just sucks for women in your age range?

Do you have many female friends?

I've always gotten to know women outside of a 'chatting up' manner, and as a result, got to know them without false pretences, and then found I either became attracted to them, or just stayed friends.

Relationships built on friendship are far stronger than those based solely on lust, as lust fades.

And don't knock internet dating. You get to separate the wheat from the chaff, or chav as the case may be. ;)

You can be very specific, and there are plenty of normal people looking for normal people and using sites as a result, as many people are sick of how unfruitful it is trying to meet people in bars/clubs.

You might surprise yourself.
 
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