Why cant i get a girlfriend?

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Shep_Cobain said:
Yo yo yo!

as the thread title says "Why cant i get a girlfriend?!?!?!?!?!?"

Im not going to be big headed or anything like that... but i dont understand why i cant get a girlfriend. Im not an ugly person... not fat... not boring, i find myself as the guy who likes to bring smiles to peoples faces. Im a caring person and would love to meet a nice girl. Ive not had a girlfriend for 3 years and im becoming bored now as i would like one. Im not into this whole online dating crap! I believe a relationship should be built up on a face to face value.

People say im far to picky with my girls but i dont think so... I go for looks and personality and if the girl isnt what im looking for i ditch them but in a nice way before i could end up hurting their feelings.

When i was 12 - 17 i found getting a girlfriend dead easy because i was with them day in and day out at school and college...

I admit ive been out with some stunners, but there was no frills to the relationship and they have only ever lasted a month maximum. Ive never had a long term relationship nor have i ever fallen in love with a girl.

Dont get me wrong i see a load of hot girls all the time and i do the whole Quagmire thing "Giggity Giggity Goo" and im not an un-confident person as i deal with the general public all day (estate agent). I have a nice car, live in a nice area etc. But all girls these days is go out to clubs, get absolutly wasted and then have sex with random blokes who are older than them.

If i go out... i talk to girls but they either have boyfriends or are just interested in getting wrecked.

These days girls just go for lads no matter how good looking or ugly they or what there personality is like they just go for them if they are always out in town(clubbing) or hang about with older lads who are "HARD" lol.

It seems you need to hang about with fake people to get a girlfriend. Everyone are sheeps these days and because of that my sex life is now just between me and my hand lol.

I just see loads of nice girls, they smile at me - i say hiya how you doing? and they say hi, fine thanks... but then if i ask for her number and she has a boyfriend ... then do i think **** it all the girls are two timing ****. I saw an absolute stunenr one night in a club and started talking to her. Realised i kind of new her through a friend of a friend etc. Got her number and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime. But all she could care about was sticking a certain substance up her nose and going out the following week and meeting me out.

She didnt want to go cinema, pub, meal or anything like that?

Im i to old fashioned for my age? I have mates who go round to different girls houses every week and get laid by different girls no strings attached, and i wouldnt say the lads are like good looking lads... some of my mates a real slime balls when it comes to girls...

IS it me or does everyone go through this? I know its petty... but i just find it very difficult to get a date or a girlfriend. I will talk to girls but like i said they either have boyfriends or arent interested lol.

Im not sending out a date offer here btw.... Im just wondering is there anything youve got to do these days to get a girlfriend? lol
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Your 20... chill out and enjoy yourself.
 
KittensCake said:
Why so many relationship threads recently? OcUK General Discussion AKA OcUK Relationship Advice
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Summer. Being holed up inside for warmth in the winter months keeps relationships going. Come Summer, and people start wearing less, relationships end as fitter people are spotted, etc

Or something :p
 
rick827 said:
Well judging by your posts you want an intelligent, mature and interesting girl but from you're posts you sound young, a bit immature and somewhat impatient when it comes to women. You need to either admit drunk girls are for you because you're too lazy, or change your 'game' and look for a female friend 1st.
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Mate, im mature for my age but everyone has a side of immaturity... if you dont your blatently boring. Ive been looing for 3 years so impatient maybe? I dont know ... Lazy... i think not... i work my own job and run my own business and only have 1 day off a week.

Im very outgoing and hate being on my own.... id rather be with mates that not.
 
Holliday said:
Stop caring about finding a girlfriend.

This way, if you get a girlfriend then awesome! If not you won't care anyway.

Win win siutation.
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I didnt care for two and a half years but now im getting bored. When all my mates dont come out because their seeing their girlfriend im lonesome... and no i dont have any female friends that i hang about with. All my mates are lads.
 
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SiHH said:
Your 20... chill out and enjoy yourself.
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surely i should be out there nailing everything under the sun while im young? My mates have vids of girls who are getting nailed by like 20 lads lol. Not attractive i know but these girls live near me... how come im never around when these things happen?

My dad constantly says to me... "when i was your age i had a different girlfriend each week"
 
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Shep_Cobain said:
surely i should be out there nailing everything under the sun while im young? My mates have vids of girls who are getting nailed by like 20 lads lol. Not attractive i know but these girls live near me... how come im never around when these things happen?
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Because you have a modicum of decency?

I'm getting confused, you're going on about not getting a girlfriend, then you moan about missing out on a gangbang.
 
I gave up looking, total waste of time. Just wait for it to happen, go out, enjoy yourself, be a free spirit, and eventually you will find the perfect girl :)
 
I'm not sure what your wanting from this thread. The best advice has already been given.

Stop actively looking for someone, stop all the "giggity" crap and stop trying to hit on drunkard girls who sleep with anything that moves (except you).
 
Until you said you were an estate agent I was guessing that was your role. Your ego and demeanour suite it perfectly ;)
 
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