In all fairness, when I lived abroad I couldn't speak arabic, apart from 'hello how are you?' and similar phrases. But the situation was different in many ways: even the rudest appearing peasant would talk to you in english, albeit broken english sometimes, so you never really got a chance to practise arabic, because everyone wanted to practice their english! lol
I think the key difference sometimes played upon by the media (DM etc) is the reluctance for some groups to accept our laws and respect our traditions of secularism and equality (such as they are), expecting their alien culture to take precedence over ours. I recall taking steps to not stand out (any more than was unavoidable lol) and abiding by Bahrain law and custom as was expected of a guest in a host country - 'when in rome' and all of that.