Why is the guy bad?

Jonny ///M

Jonny ///M

Jonny ///M

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Well from a discussion at work it was decided that if a guy met a girl and found out she had a boyfriend but still ended up sleeping together,then the guy was bad for doing it?

The guys basically said to the girls if you were the girl and a guy turned round and said they wouldn't sleep with you because you have a boyfriend the girl would feel rejected but the girls say the guy shouldn't bother as 'it's bad'.

From what i see it's up to the girl to choose wether or not she wants to rather than the guy.

Having been in the situation very recently i would not have done it if she didn't want to but she did so how is it any problem of mine that she has a boyfriend? We were both not very drunk and could think straight so...ya.

So boys and girls is it all the guys fault,the girls or both parties?

(sorry for such a crap thread):o
 
If he knew she was seeing someone, then he's in the wrong as well. Admittedly it's 99% the person who's dating someone else's fault though :)
 
its wrong for a guy to sleep with a girl who has a boyfriend. Obviously its mostly her fault but think about it, you have a girlfriend, some guy seduces her and sleeps with her. How do you feel now? How could you knowingly put someone through that pain?
 
Both parties at fault and the guy is risking a punch in the face or maybe worse if the boyfriend finds out ,a mate of mine was put in intensive care for weeks although he was caught in the act .
Yes I have done the same myself but you need to be aware of the risks :D
 
I see..................pretty much just what my mate told me!

Lets just hope im a bit more mad than the boyfriend............well it's not my fault he's crap is it?

(i dont care how long or what happens regardless,sex is great...so well ya.....)
 
Girl. If you knew the guy then I'd condemn it, but you don't by the sounds of it.

That's not what I think, but it seems more or less the general idea, personally I'll never do it (touch wood) but it seems logical in some crazy way.
 
You are not dating the boyfriend so you have not cheated on him, its the ho who is at fault, she is in the relationship, so she is the one cheating = the one in the wrong.

p.s. if she is cheating on him with you, most likely she has done it before. So be sure to shrink wrap your meat and two veg or you might be down at the VD clinic soon enough.
 
its both their faults tbh, iv done it before, its a bit of a buzz etc really but its not really very nice is it. If it happened to me id blame the girl, and wouldnt be THAT fussed since i only 'fall' for people i think would be faithful, and if they arnt then iv fallen for an imaginary ;)

tbh id do it again though, and a few chances seem to be arising..
Whos fault is it if a girl takes advantage of a drunk guy she knows is in a relationship? the guys for getting drunk?
 
In my opinion its both their faults, they both have a choice, anyone who says different is just a fool. Oh and its good to hear other guys admiting both parties are at fault instead of shifiting the blame.
 
but you agree its more hers than his. He doesnt know the relationship status etc, its safe to assume if shes cheating like that its either majorly on the rocks, he cant satisfy her, or shes just scum that he needs rid of, so let her give him an excuse... you! ;)
 
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