Why is this annoying?

Cody

Cody

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I went out with people from work on Tuesday night - lots to drink, the boss bought me 4 pints :p , on the way back from a club met a girl in the takeaway who knows a colleague, we walked back together talking, can't remember what about.

I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime so I got her number, checked it worked - I typed it in wrong first time, then saying goodbye lead to a hug and me asking her to the flat. ;)

She disappeared in the morning as she hadn't told her parents she was staying out :eek: , I texted her on Weds and have tried calling a few times but no answer - including last night when I was out.

I was wondering how many times to try before giving up? I would like to see her again to see if I like her - I'm not looking for a gf but would like someone to relieve sexual frustration. It seems strange that she agreed to go for a drink before and now wont answer. :confused:
 
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Sent a text and left a message?

Then leave it. She has your number and if she wants to will get back in touch. If she doesn't, she won't. Hounding her won't improve your chances.

I'd've thought the reason for it being annoying is obvious.
 
Cody said:
I went out with people from work on Tuesday night - lots to drink, the boss bought me 4 pints :p , on the way back from a club met a girl in the takeaway who knows a colleague, we walked back together talking, can't remember what about.

I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime so I got her number, checked it worked - I typed it in wrong first time, then saying goodbye lead to a hug and me asking her to the flat. ;)

She disappeared in the morning as she hadn't told her parents she was staying out :eek: , I texted her on Weds and have tried calling a few times but no answer - including last night when I was out.

I was wondering how many times to try before giving up? I would like to see her again to see if I like her - I'm not looking for a gf but would like someone to relieve sexual frustration. It seems strange that she agreed to go for a drink before and now wont answer. :confused:
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If your good in the sack she'll call, if she don't call then well erm, forget it.
 
The thing is I wasn't bothered at first and wasn't going to call but I suppose it is not being in control. If I called and she said she wasn't interested, or I said I wasn't it would be fine.

I wasn't going to sleep with her either as she had a big stomach with one of those tops that didn't cover it - she obviously didn't read the Women's Summer Dress thread. :D

My flatmate joked that she might be duffed up :eek:
 
Dude, the two day rule. You don't make any contact for at least two days or else you appear a bit desperate. It's worse if you try to call a few times and send texts first thing the day after :p
 
Was looking last night but the only attention I had was from 2 massive girls - one of them was looking at me and started doing squatting motions while holding on to a stair rail. it reminded me of the video of that 'woman' exercising that was posted on here the other day.

The sad thing is I probably would have by closing time, as long as I make sure my flat mates don't see them its OK I suppose :D
 
Captain Kirk said:
You got sex, stop complaining :D go out and find the next one
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I agree with James Tiberius here. You got your end away - be content with that and move on.
She will have got your text and noticed the missed calls, if she doesn't call, she's not interested - classic one-nighter.

Stan :)

PS: If she doesn't call, pass her number to me - I could do with a bit of relief and she sounds... erm.... shall we say, friendly? ;)
 
I was trying to work out how long between meeting and having sex, I think it is probably the second quickest, takeaway is about 15 mins from the flat, time to eat cheesy chips - 5 mins. At least she didn't steal anything.
 
please, just go and watch Swingers with Vince Vaughn

you will learn a few lessons


"You're money, and you don't even know it"
 
Fat birds = vespas. Great for a ride til your mate sees you on one.
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:D

She probably feels the same - I need to start going the gym this week - didn't go at all last week - working late and partying.

I was thinking of keeping a supply of Red Bull in the flat, I was up for another go but she just wanted to go to sleep.
 
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