Wierd Dreaming/Sleeping Experiences

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Thought I'd make a thread about sleeping/dreaming, as it's something that really interests me - in particular, Lucid Dreaming.

Basically - I'd like to hear about all your wierd dreams/nightmares/lucid dreams.

Here are some of my experiences:

Lucid Dreaming

I've had a few Lucid Dreams now, and I have to say, it's one of the best things I have ever experienced in life.

My first ever Lucid Dream was when I was approximately 13/14: I was in a French town, and some Black girl was stood in this street asking me to come in to this sort of gypsy like cart. All of a sudden, everything just clicked - and I realised I was in a dream. It truly was amazing. I remember looking up at a lamp-post, and thinking to myself that it should be on as it's nighttime, then bang, it came on instantly. It's wierd - I remember actually being exstatic in the dream because I knew I was, if you get what I mean. The girl was still beckoning me into this cart, and so I followed her in, and rocked the kazbar. I'd lost my virginity in a dream before I had in real life :D

Another vivid one I remember was when I was stood in my garden, and again, it dawned on me that I was actually in a dream. Again, I looked around, and saw that the trees where perfectly still, and thought to myself "there must me some wind", then the trees started to sway gently in the wind. Again, like before, I was exstatic. I then decided to simply hover up to the top of a huge conifer tree and perch myself on the top, and looked out at the whole world on the horizon, sort of like a gargantuan world atlas.

Apparently Lucid Dreams can be achieved by everyone, because 'normal' people are meant to come out of a dream as soon as they realise it is a dream, and move on to another. However, if as soon as you feel a dream 'stopping', you think "This is a dream, this is a dream" - it then becomes a Lucid Dream, and you really are free to do as you please.

It's almost, dare I say it, like being in the Matrix :p

Nightmares

When I was young, I always used to have wierd reoccuring nightmares.

The first, and most harrowing, took place in my home. I'd be standing at the bottom of the garden, then all of a sudden I'd hear a roar of a plane, and a huge bomb would fall off its wing, and hit the house slap bang in the middle. I'd run up the garden, and through the patio doors, to find my dad bleeding to death on the couch. I'd immediately start crying, and asked my dad if he was alright, he'd insist he was okay, and then tell me to go check on my mum. So I'd run upstairs, and as I'd reach the landing, I'd see my mum, stood in her bedroom at the end of the landing, covered in blood. I'd then run towards her, but a few steps before I'd reach her, that whole wing of the house would collapse on my mum. I always woke up in a old sweat and near crying - and I must have had that dream a dozen times.

Another, much more 'childish' dream was where I was in New York, and this huge monster would just chase me through the streets, the only thing I could do was run. Eventually, it would catch me. Much like that one, there was a nightmare where I'd be in the back garden, talking to our old dog, Betsy, in her cage (she was never in a cage in real life). Suddenly, her eyes would roll back and then turn red, and she'd start foaming at the mouth. She'd then go mental, jumping at the cage, trying to bite my face off. Eventually, she'd break through the cage, and chase me up the garden. I'd look back at her gradually gaining on me, all the time I was thinking what I could have done to get her so mad. But a few steps before I reached the safety of the house, I'd feel her jaw lock down on the back of my neck, and I'd wake up.

Perhaps the most perculiar, and the most reoccuring dream I've ever had (talking near 100 times I've had this nightmare), was where I was stood in a vast, empty room, in absolute complete darkness. Then I'd be stood in front of a table, and at the other side of the table would be stood Mario (as if in Mario and Luigi), just staring and grinning at me. I'd gradually start to move away from the table, moving further and further, but it seemed no matter how far away I could get, I could always see Mario's big evil grinning face staring at me. Make of that what you will, for I have never fathomed out why I've had that nightmare so many times.

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So, please feel to post your wierd sleep/dream experiences - I'd especially like to hear from anyone who's capable of Lucid dreaming, and anybody who has/does suffer from sleep paralysis.

Btw, I got out the looney bin on Wednesday ;) :p
 
Originally posted by Vai
Does anyone know any techniques you can do to invoke Lucid dreaming? It would be so cool to be able to try out a couple of matrix moves :cool:

The only one I know of is as I said above, which is to just subconciously think before you go to sleep "This is going to be a dream, this is going to be a dream"

And they really are fantastic :D

/hopes he has one tonight :D
 
Here's some information about Lucid Dreams I have just found: :)

WHAT IS LUCID DREAMING?

Lucid dreaming means dreaming while knowing that you are dreaming. The term was coined by Frederik van Eeden who used the word "lucid" in the sense of mental clarity. Lucidity usually begins in the midst of a dream when the dreamer realizes that the experience is not occurring in physical reality, but is a dream. Often this realization is triggered by the dreamer noticing some impossible or unlikely occurrence in the dream, such as flying or meeting the deceased. Sometimes people become lucid without noticing any particular clue in the dream; they just suddenly realize they are in a dream. A minority of lucid dreams (according to the research of LaBerge and colleagues, about 10 percent) are the result of returning to REM (dreaming) sleep directly from an awakening with unbroken reflective consciousness.

The basic definition of lucid dreaming requires nothing more than becoming aware that you are dreaming. However, the quality of lucidity can vary greatly. When lucidity is at a high level, you are aware that everything experienced in the dream is occurring in your mind, that there is no real danger, and that you are asleep in bed and will awaken shortly. With low-level lucidity you may be aware to a certain extent that you are dreaming, perhaps enough to fly or alter what you are doing, but not enough to realize that the people are dream representations, or that you can suffer no physical damage, or that you are actually in bed.

IS LUCID DREAMING THE SAME AS DREAM CONTROL?

Lucidity is not synonymous with dream control. It is possible to be lucid and have little control over dream content, and conversely, to have a great deal of control without being explicitly aware that you are dreaming. However, becoming lucid in a dream is likely to increase the extent to which you can deliberately influence the course of events. Once lucid, dreamers usually choose to do something permitted only by the extraordinary freedom of the dream state, such as flying.

You always have the choice of how much control you want to exert. For example, you could continue with whatever you were doing when you became lucid, with the added knowledge that you are dreaming. Or you could try to change everything--the dream scene, yourself, other dream characters. It is not always possible to perform "magic" in dreams, like changing one object into another or transforming scenes. A dreamer's ability to succeed at this seems to depend a lot on the dreamer's confidence. As Henry Ford said, "Believe you can, believe you can't; either way, you're right." On the other hand, it appears there are some constraints on dream control that may be independent of belief.

WHY HAVE LUCID DREAMS?

Upon hearing about lucid dreaming for the first time, people often ask, "Why should I want to have lucid dreams? What are they good for?" If you consider that once you know you are dreaming, you are restricted only by your ability to imagine and conceive, not by laws of physics or society, then the answer to what lucid dreaming is good for is either extremely simple (anything!) or extraordinarily complex (everything!). It is easier to provide a sample of what some people have done with lucid dreaming than to give a definitive answer of its potential uses.

Often, the first thing that attracts people to lucid dreaming is the potential for wild adventure and fantasy fulfillment. Flying is a favorite lucid dream delight, as is sex. Many people have said that their first lucid dream was the most wonderful experience of their lives. A large part of the extraordinary pleasure of lucid dreaming comes from the exhilarating feeling of utter freedom that accompanies the realization that you are in a dream and there will be no social or physical consequences of your actions. One might think that this is a rather intellectual concept, but an ecstatic "rush" frequently arises with the first realization that one is dreaming.

A lot more can be found at: http://www.lucidity.com/LucidDreamingFAQ2.html

:)
 
Originally posted by Psyk
I'm sure i've had dreams where i've realised i've been dreaming but it didn't give me any control over it. I didn't even really choose my actions in the dream, it just continued as normal even though it was a dream. It was like I was only dreaming that i knew it was a dream:confused: . Anyway with lucid dreams, how do you know that you are choosing what happens? How do you know that it isn't just the way the dream goes?

The same goes for reality - how do you know you weren't destined to make that post since the dawn of time?

I think we can have a pretty good guess at what we're influencing. And often in Lucid Dreams, I forget all about the current theme and just go off doing my own thing.

The dreams that you described, where you realise its a dream, but it continues on as normal, occur frequently. You're one step away from a Lucid Dream. All you have to do is think to yourself "okay, this is a dream, so I can do whatever I want".

In a way - it is extremely like the Matrix.
 
Originally posted by Lopéz
I'm quite good at remembering my dreams - I tend to run over them in my head all morning, andlater in the day events normally happen that remind me of what happened in dreams.

I find my dreams are all very closely related to my friends, interests and hobbies.
Some things are bizzarely detailed, others are vague. It's quite hard to explain really - I might know exactly what a place in my dream is but can't for the life of me remember what it physically looked like, or sometimes the opposite happens - I remember every nook and crannie of a particular building but can't for the life of me remember what it's function is.

In fact, I'd like to start a parallel thread this week about dreams - just a plain "record your dreams here" type thread.

Hehe - I actually did make a DreamLog thread - but decided not to post :)

Go ahead m8y :)
 
Originally posted by Acolyte
Just out of interest has anyone else here had when you wake up in the night and your face is down in your pillow and you can hardly breathe, but your muscles feel asleep and you cant turn your neck ?

Acolyte :)

That's called sleep paralysis mate - a few people have recollected their experiences (All of which sound horrifying) in this thread - have a read backwards :)
 
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