Woman advice

[Beasty]

Go for broke and remember: AVOID THE FRIEND ZONE (This is different to actually just being friends with her).

 

[Devrij]

If there is anything i learnt from chasing tail is that there is no damage control. If she is as hot as you say then she must have had it (literally) a few times in her past. I had the same at Uni and i should have moved on but let it linger like malaria for 2 years, a complete waste.Forget it and move on.

In the army they have people who dwell on the past and those how move on. The ones who dwell have major problems in the future because of dwelling too much on what happened.

This. You have what's known as "one-itis" (eg, she's "the one"). I would suggest sarging some random girls, strike up conversations with random girls at bus stops etc and be adventurous so that you feel confident enough to lead a girl into a relationship (or bed) rather than letting her play the lead. You've been this girl's plaything long enough and it's embarrassing for both of you. Seriously bro, practice on some random girls where there's no chance you'll see them again and see what you can get away with. Once you realise through experience that you can acually do/say whatever you like, you'll be in a much better position when you meet a girl who's hot enough to deserve attention.

 

[Toxic Babyface]

This. You have what's known as "one-itis" (eg, she's "the one"). I would suggest sarging some random girls, strike up conversations with random girls at bus stops etc and be adventurous so that you feel confident enough to lead a girl into a relationship (or bed) rather than letting her play the lead. You've been this girl's plaything long enough and it's embarrassing for both of you. Seriously bro, practice on some random girls where there's no chance you'll see them again and see what you can get away with. Once you realise through experience that you can acually do/say whatever you like, you'll be in a much better position when you meet a girl who's hot enough to deserve attention.

Oh how I wish I had the confidence to do this.
I am terrible at doing this sort of thing as it will usually result in me making a fool of myself lol.