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Women who just dont reply to emails, phonecalls, text messages..

but are *very* keen and interested when you meet them in person (and even arrange to meet up again)

why? :confused: why do you do it? Is it so you are in control? All it does is make me think they are severely lacking in manners :/
 
If they don't reply to one, DONT send any more, or by any other format.

It makes you look weak, sad, pathetic, desperate.

If they don't reply to the first, then wait. The ball is in their court.
 
This happened to my mate the other week, she gave him her number and seemed keen. I warned him not to get ANY hopes up until he was actually out on a date with her.

Of course he built his hopes up and she didn't reply....poor lad
 
Perhaps you're just too scary for her to say no to you in person? Or if you're more the cuddly kitten type she could just be being two-faced. Either way, stop chasing and you'll either be better off without her or she'll miss the attention and give you a call.

PK!
 
MookJong said:
This happened to my mate the other week, she gave him her number and seemed keen. I warned him not to get ANY hopes up until he was actually out on a date with her.

Of course he built his hopes up and she didn't reply....poor lad
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He'll learn. :p
 
Lysander said:
She doesn't like you enough and is being polite and nice when you see her in person.
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why does she want to meet me again then? :confused:

(been out twice so far and we do have smt arranged for 3rd date) (first meet up lasted from 5pm - 11pm just talking nonstop for 6 hours)

but yeah your right im certainly not getting my hopes up on this one......i should be more objective and detached *sigh*


Perhaps you're just too scary for her to say no to you in person?
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hehe :D i have had a similar comment in the past. I do look a little scary > :D
(and before you ask NO ****** WAY :) )
 
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Don't let it get you down mate. Failure with woman can be soul destroying. I've gone through a bad patch of rejections for a year now and it got me down.

One day you'll meet someone right for you and you wont care about the other unsuccessful attempts. I got the same advice from my best friends and didn't believe it either, until last month.

Hang in there matey. ;)
 
Surfer said:
Women who just dont reply to emails, phonecalls, text messages..

but are *very* keen and interested when you meet them in person (and even arrange to meet up again)

why? :confused: why do you do it? Is it so you are in control? All it does is make me think they are severely lacking in manners :/
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Its payback for ***t men that have done it to her :D
 
Ask yourself how it feels to have a woman in charge of your emotions (or ANY other person for that matter) and how you have gotten yourself into a situation where you are literally chomping at the bit when she doesnt respond to communication.

NEVER EVER CHASE A WOMAN - Instant loss of respect. As other posters have said, put the ball in someones court with a text or whatever .... and LEAVE It there.

By constantly badgering anyone with attention, it basically says "ill keep coming back to you whether you are nice to me or not"

Be a man homey.
 
Maybe she was being polite, and didnt actually want to go on a date with the sort of misogynist that would **** off a stranger on an internet forum?

Just a possibility, mind.....
 
treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen.

Cliche, but it works incredibly well
If you're a nice bloke, just for once, spend a few days and not ring/text etc or making a big effort, you'll find they give you lots more attention than usual
 
Quote from the last boy scout,
three facts of life,
water is wet
sky is blue
and women tell lies,
It happens, period you get let down just another fact of life.
 
Visage said:
Maybe she was being polite, and didnt actually want to go on a date with the sort of misogynist that would **** off a stranger on an internet forum?

Just a possibility, mind.....
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i'm not necessarily slagging her off - i just wanted to know why :confused: she's a lovely person otherwise...
 
brid said:
Ask yourself how it feels to have a woman in charge of your emotions (or ANY other person for that matter) and how you have gotten yourself into a situation where you are literally chomping at the bit when she doesnt respond to communication.

NEVER EVER CHASE A WOMAN - Instant loss of respect. As other posters have said, put the ball in someones court with a text or whatever .... and LEAVE It there.

By constantly badgering anyone with attention, it basically says "ill keep coming back to you whether you are nice to me or not"

Be a man homey.
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Good Advice and i have followed it mostly. i have restrained myself from multiple texting/phoning. 2 phone calls, 1 text and maybe 2 emails in 2 weeks.
 
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